Relationship With Your Mom Story?
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Duchess I am writing a book.
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@WoodGecko9118
ion like my mom -
my mom is quite the best thing but my dad is quite the extra hell itself
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I had a good mothers day. I got to spend a lot of time with my mother and I loved it. Me and my little sister and my mom went out to eat and since my sister is only 7, she wanted to go to the park so we went there. Then I gave my mom her present, It was this watch she has always wanted. And by far, we had a great time.
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I hate her guts and I wish I was never related to her
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Yaboralski it makes me guilty that others have such amazing moms while I donโt
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Yaboralski while me over here not even having a mom
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@1zzylmao oh buddy i dont have one eaithervshe left me dude
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war Does that get in the way with having a good relationship, or would you say you have a good relationship despite the arguments? What I mean by a โgood relationship,โ I mean like a healthy mother-child relationship where you both love eachother.
@HEXER To me, it sounds like she gaslights the issues. Which, is pretty sad since the problem refuses to even consider they need to change a few things to make their own son have a better childhood. Because they donโt even think there is a problem. And honestly, thatโs a scary thing to think about. But I know exactly what you mean. I think, honestly, just not bothering to tell her about it is, in the long run, better. Narcissistic parents canโt really be called out for their actions or theyโll just do what they do best and dismiss/gaslight you. Itโs really really hard to do, but just not telling them about it is probably for the best. It would save the lectures and save you getting slapped with lies every time. I donโt see your mom likely ever admitting sheโs done you wrong. Itโs clear she doesnโt think that. So thereโs no point convincing her otherwise.
@yourlocalkitkat Siblings are nice to have since they can be like live-in friends. Theyโre more around your age and understand where you come from with your problems being their kids too. So I get it. Itโs good you do trust your mom though :)
Cursed Cucumber Thatโs really amazing to hear. My mom has a good sense of humor as well. Itโs great when you can just talk to someone and make it enjoyable rather seeing your parent as a boss.
lโra Your momโs a makeup artist? Is that what you mean? And oh my goodness, your parents sound so adorable XD I would love if my parents had matching careers. Itโs great your mom and you are good friends :)
@Victor Like I said in a previous comment, motherโs are complicated creatures hahaโฆ I think maybe her being your mom and having to tell you to do things might get in the way of the friendship part, but Iโm glad you love eachother nonetheless.
@Knoxzee Thatโs kind of silly to point out how masculine you are when it honestly doesnโt matter. Itโs just a style, and thatโs not something you should be ashamed of. Thatโs just silly. Iโm glad your brother and you have become close though. Itโs really lovely when I hear people having a good relationship with their sibling(s). My sibling relationship is a bit odd. We have a cheesy โI love youโ/huggy/joking/teasing relationship, but we never confide in eachother. Or share much besides surface level things like knowing eachotherโs favorite animals/colors/foods. So basically on the outside, it looks like we have a deep bond, but we really donโt. Same goes for my parents I guess. But itโs genuinely alright with me.
@WoodGecko9118 Oh yeah! Indeed you are. And it definitely shows. Youโre a really great writer.
@That-Machine Wow. So is your dad likeโฆdifficult then?
@607-Eli Aww, thatโs so cute. I am glad you guys had a great day. I love watches lol. And how nice of your mom to take your sister to the park :)
Yaboralski There are many people who also struggle with their mother relationship, so donโt feel like youโre alone. Andโฆshe left you? Wow, thatโs an awful thing of her to do. Iโm sorry you have to live with that. If sheโs not in your life, have you considered healing from the fact that she left you? Like moving on and stuff. Iโm not saying you have to, but have you ever thought about it?
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Duchess
Yeah. .I don't exactly know why its so hard for some adults to admit they're in the wrong.
But its also not just adults too.
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{_๐๐๐_} True. Kids are hard to handle too. I do question if there are users here who talk about a difficult parent if they, too, are being difficult. But I donโt usually ask.
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Duchess
Yeah. I just prefer to ask my eldest sister [As she's an adult] and if she says no THEN that's when I ask my mom
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I donโt have anything to say negative about mine as sheโs genuinely a caring person and has never mistreated me
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Duchess Iโve sprinkled little details of my relationship with my mom here and there.
Most people already have somewhat of an Idea but I donโt get along with my mother, not in the childish parent-child relationship way, more of the โShe abandoned me to pursue drugs and never wanted kids in the first placeโ kind of way.
We donโt see eye to eye, and in her eyes, Iโll always be her little failure. But thatโs okay, I donโt have any desire to see her or impress her, Ive made it clear to her I want little to do with her.
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Duchess i did move on i just hate her for it
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@CaptainPresto said in Relationship With Your Mom Story?:
Iโll always be her little failure
Sheโs pretty much the one.
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Why do all of you hate your moms?? One day she is gonna die and you will Never see her again.
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@1zzylmao
I don't hate my mom, I love her and I make sure to show that even though she doesn't reciprocate it back
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@JePhil Thatโs great to hear :)
@CaptainPresto Ill always see that is pretty inspiring. I think thatโs kind of a goal to anyone whoโs dealing with a genuinely difficult/toxic parent. Iโm glad to know you overcame what she did.
Yaboralski I see. But a part of moving on is forgiving as well. Which means you donโt waste your mind space with hate on her at all.
@1zzylmao Some peopleโs motherโs can be toxic enough that their death isnโt as hard to get sad over. Some. Definitely not all. It can be hard to deal with difficult parents and still have compassion and care for them. Itโs important to care about them, but to actually, thatโs to an extent. Like Presto was saying about his mom, some parents you just have to stop caring about. I get itโs hard to accept if you have a nice mother, but that fact of life is, not every mother is great, decent, or even healthy at all.
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Duchess said in Relationship With Your Mom Story?:
not every mother is great, decent, or even healthy at all.
yea my mom wasent either but i didnt hate her