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@Calistaa I mean, I could just drop my family right now. But I don’t really have any idea what I’d do or where to go. I don’t really have friends I can go live with that my family don’t talk to/hang out with regularly, so basically anyone I know is too close to my family. I’d have to plan something extravagant.
My problem is, though I’m studying to get my permit, I’d still have to wait a long time to get a full license to drive away legally by myself. Plus I don’t have my own car. Which…I can’t buy one because I don’t have a job. A job that I can’t drive to with no car. So I’m in a bit of a pickle. I’d have to go to a job in walking distance, but the one place I can walk to, I’m not allowed to work there . That’s another story.@auth-Burger Thank you I like you quite a lot
@xay-is-hot-duh Thank you Ry. It does really mean something to have people who care. I’ll always appreciate that. I feel like a punk for “venting” or “talking about my personal life” but I’m trying to be more open to that kind of thing. I definitely think you deserve to be a mod, but I know it’s a big responsibility so I get it.
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I’m sorry you have to deal with all that Duchess, i know it must be hard. I’m glad that this has become a safe space for you to get things like this off your chest. We’re all here for you in one way or another. Happy Birthday Duchess <3
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@maybenot-finneas Believe it or not, this was my older sister. Granted we’re Irish twins so she’s only a year older than I, but still. You’d thing she’d act somewhat more mature. And my parents meant enlisting into the military. Not just camp. It was all talk though, so I’m not worried. I agree, I do at least try to be strong. So I think I’ll be okay. Thank you, Fin.
Sapphire!!! I doubt I’ll enlist. I mean, even if I did, I’d do it for my sake. Not anyone else’s.
Cursed Cucumber Thank you very much. I am glad I have come to feel better about sharing. It actually helps more than I thought it would.
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@Duchess its me xay-
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@rylie-is-hot-duh Whoops, mentioned the wrong one. By bad lol
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Duchess, I’m sorry, I really am. You don’t deserve any of this. And If your sister ever gets in trouble again, don’t try to help. Because she dosent deserve help from you. It was just stupid how you tried to help her and she just tells on you. It’s not your fault your a good person. And It’s pretty messed up how your mom just breaks YOUR phone. She could of just put It up somewhere. And, You are getting pretty old so she has to buy you a new one. And thats money coming from her stupid mistakes. Hopefully you can get a job and just get a car to get out of there. This summer, work extra hard. Try to get a good paying job. You don’t need a fancy car, all you need Is a car that works.
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@Duchess your welcome<3 also yea, being a mod is a lot of responsibility but tbh i think im to that point where i could become one. i dont really know, its not really up to me i should say. And about the whole venting thing, your not a punk or an attention seeker for venting or for sharing some of the issues your going through. I know it’s hard to believe that but its true. Nobody is ever going to judge you for letting some of your feelings out. I’m always here and my dms are always free to get ahold of. Any time you need to talk to someone for anything just come to me or even go to some others. Theres a lot of good people here that would love to help or to just listen. I know I’m going through my own shit but I put others before me. I’ll always listen and I’ll try to help.
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@Duchess Tbh, that sucks. The most I can hope for you is to get money and get your own house? Apartments are pretty cheap from what I know, but idk if you’d be willing to do all that.
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Besides, getting a job just to get enough money would be difficult, especially since you’re busy here too
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@Duchess Sorry for my language, but family can be dicks
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@Duchess Happy birthday Duchess!
Regarding everything here, you certainly deserve a special day like today :)
Have an amazing birthday!
If I can, I’ll make a little happy birthday revision on piano for you ^v^
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Ion like ya sister, why she frame you? Man if that was me, I’d have to ruin her life even without a phone.
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@1zzylmao Yeah, I’m not helping my sister anymore. Im not sure why I thought I’d help her being she has betrayed me countless times previously. I feel like she gets manipulated to be the way she is, so that’s why I ever showed her sympathy, but now I learned it’s not my job to protect anyone in my family but myself. My brother does the same things as her. And my dad.
And you’re right. I really got to figure something out about finding a job and car. Otherwise, I’m pretty much stuck here. My parents aren’t willing to buy me a car when I start driving, and neither are willing to buy me a phone. They said if I ever wanted an upgrade, I’d have to buy it myself. This phone I had was actually the first I ever owned (which I was only given when I entered highschool) and it was my dad’s hand-me-down.@Calistaa Yeah, I’d have to probably buy a house in walking distance to a job I can apply to. Plus save enough to pay for utilities till I start getting an income. That’s a lot of saving… I have 1k and that’s it. Which Ill bet isn’t enough lol. I’ll have to talk to someone about that sort of thing. Getting a job just to get enough money would take a few years. I’m currently in a program to collect some income for only 2 years, but it’s only going to get me 1k more. Which only 1k in a year…is really slow.
@Leader-Of-Femboys I do have the power to ruin her life. But I chose not to use what ammo I have because I’m not stooping to her level.
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@Duchess I mean yeah, after all, you’re not just buying the place to live in it, you need to still have enough to pay off the bills and buy necessities for inside
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