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This is a post that goes along with my one earlier right here. If you didn’t read it, basically my sister told my parents how I told her that they looked through her phone. It was only supposed to help, but apparently she thought it’d be cool to tell them. I didn’t mention the aftermath and another important detail.
The main part I got myself in trouble over is that my sister had been at a sleepover at the time my parents had been looking through her phone, so I thought to text my sister’s friend to tell her what was going on. She ended up not telling my sister so I ended up telling her in person that Sunday. So since I had told my sister’s friend, my sister was really mad at me for “exposing her to her friend.” Which doesn’t make sense. Funny thing is, my sister didn’t get mad at me in person, and even told her friend (who was standing with me that Sunday) more details about how this wasn’t the first her phone had been taken. Even I didn’t say that. And said, “This is why I wanted to be a nun.” So who’s exposing who? My sister is very loyal to my parents, which doesn’t sound like a problem, but she’s a little too loyal. So she’ll do anything to get me in trouble. It’s really frustrating since you’d think only kids did that type of malarkey. Nope.
My sister waited to go out with my parents alone to tell them everything (not telling them what she said of course since she’s two faced). When they got home, I discovered that I’m apparently a “witch,” “evil,” “cunning,” “conniving,” and a “narcissist.” I was expecting that sort of backlash. But I wasn’t expecting my sister to accuse me of calling her gay. I don’t know where that came from, but when I denied it, of course my parents said I was gaslighting them. I expected absolutely nothing less.
So after that whole fiasco, my mom went right up to my room, took my phone and said, “So you can’t report to [my sister’s friend] that I looked thought your phone, I’m breaking it.” and proceeds to throw my phone on the floor till it shattered. Surprised not 1%. But then I actually had a dream lastnight that my mom threw it in the bathroom trashcan, so I sifted in there this morning and lo and behold, here it is:
(I know it’s an old phone. It’s from 2015)
I expected nothing less.
My parents were talking about sending me to the military, and grounding me, taking my laptop, but all of that was empty threats I guess. I fully prepared to not be able to come back to mppc for a long time. I even thought to resign as a mod or give someone my account while I was gone. My first thought was @xay-is-hot-duh because I’ve seen how amazing they’ve been on this site, and have always been here to help anyone. They’re the type of person I feel can take my place if I ever did have to step away due to some wacky circumstance.
Conclusion
I talked to my mom yesterday, and she said she “didn’t like me,” but I think everything is fine now. No one seems to be mad at me anymore. Too bad I have to deal with not having a phone anymore though. That seems to be the only thing that came from this whole thing. Besides my sister and I not being on good terms, but after what she did to me? I honestly don’t care. I’m just so glad everything turned out alright for my birthday today.
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Duchess, I’m not sure if you’re the kind of person to act the way I would in that situation, and I know that this isn’t really helpful but
If I were in that situation, I’d wait to reach the legal age of adult, and just drop my family. No contact, won’t even pretend to know them.
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@Duchess happy birthday duchess
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@Duchess duchess im so sorry this is happening to you. that honestly sucks really bad. your sister seems to have some sort of anger towards you in some way to make her be like that. that isn’t okay. but im really glad everything seems to be alright now. you really do deserve the world and just to let you know ill always be there even if you don’t believe it or even if you don’t want me to. and if you were to ever leave id love to happily take place with the whole mod thing but i would then feel bad since i really dont deserve it. you mods are amazing as it is, i dont need to possibly mess that up. but i would for sure take place if anything bad happened.
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duchess, im so sorry that your family is like that. no one deserves to go through that. your sister really sucks and so do your parents if they believe everything your little sister says. parents can really be brickheads sometimes especially about the military camp thing. no onr deserves to go thrgough that right before their birthday, especially not you. i honestly wouldnt be able to handle anything like this si your really strong duchess. all things work together for good <3
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I hope you never get sent to the military. Cause I’d really miss you a lot.
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@Calistaa I mean, I could just drop my family right now. But I don’t really have any idea what I’d do or where to go. I don’t really have friends I can go live with that my family don’t talk to/hang out with regularly, so basically anyone I know is too close to my family. I’d have to plan something extravagant.
My problem is, though I’m studying to get my permit, I’d still have to wait a long time to get a full license to drive away legally by myself. Plus I don’t have my own car. Which…I can’t buy one because I don’t have a job. A job that I can’t drive to with no car. So I’m in a bit of a pickle. I’d have to go to a job in walking distance, but the one place I can walk to, I’m not allowed to work there . That’s another story.@auth-Burger Thank you
I like you quite a lot@xay-is-hot-duh Thank you Ry. It does really mean something to have people who care. I’ll always appreciate that. I feel like a punk for “venting” or “talking about my personal life” but I’m trying to be more open to that kind of thing. I definitely think you deserve to be a mod, but I know it’s a big responsibility so I get it.
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I’m sorry you have to deal with all that Duchess, i know it must be hard. I’m glad that this has become a safe space for you to get things like this off your chest. We’re all here for you in one way or another. Happy Birthday Duchess <3
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@maybenot-finneas Believe it or not, this was my older sister. Granted we’re Irish twins so she’s only a year older than I, but still. You’d thing she’d act somewhat more mature. And my parents meant enlisting into the military. Not just camp. It was all talk though, so I’m not worried. I agree, I do at least try to be strong. So I think I’ll be okay. Thank you, Fin.
Sapphire!!! I doubt I’ll enlist. I mean, even if I did, I’d do it for my sake. Not anyone else’s.
Cursed Cucumber Thank you very much. I am glad I have come to feel better about sharing. It actually helps more than I thought it would.
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@Duchess its me xay-
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@rylie-is-hot-duh Whoops, mentioned the wrong one. By bad lol
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Duchess, I’m sorry, I really am. You don’t deserve any of this. And If your sister ever gets in trouble again, don’t try to help. Because she dosent deserve help from you. It was just stupid how you tried to help her and she just tells on you. It’s not your fault your a good person. And It’s pretty messed up how your mom just breaks YOUR phone. She could of just put It up somewhere. And, You are getting pretty old so she has to buy you a new one. And thats money coming from her stupid mistakes. Hopefully you can get a job and just get a car to get out of there. This summer, work extra hard. Try to get a good paying job. You don’t need a fancy car, all you need Is a car that works.
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@Duchess your welcome<3 also yea, being a mod is a lot of responsibility but tbh i think im to that point where i could become one. i dont really know, its not really up to me i should say. And about the whole venting thing, your not a punk or an attention seeker for venting or for sharing some of the issues your going through. I know it’s hard to believe that but its true. Nobody is ever going to judge you for letting some of your feelings out. I’m always here and my dms are always free to get ahold of. Any time you need to talk to someone for anything just come to me or even go to some others. Theres a lot of good people here that would love to help or to just listen. I know I’m going through my own shit but I put others before me. I’ll always listen and I’ll try to help.
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@Duchess Tbh, that sucks. The most I can hope for you is to get money and get your own house? Apartments are pretty cheap from what I know, but idk if you’d be willing to do all that.
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Besides, getting a job just to get enough money would be difficult, especially since you’re busy here too
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@Duchess Sorry for my language, but family can be dicks
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@Duchess Happy birthday Duchess!
Regarding everything here, you certainly deserve a special day like today :)
Have an amazing birthday! 
If I can, I’ll make a little happy birthday revision on piano for you ^v^
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Ion like ya sister, why she frame you? Man if that was me, I’d have to ruin her life even without a phone.
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@1zzylmao Yeah, I’m not helping my sister anymore. Im not sure why I thought I’d help her being she has betrayed me countless times previously. I feel like she gets manipulated to be the way she is, so that’s why I ever showed her sympathy, but now I learned it’s not my job to protect anyone in my family but myself. My brother does the same things as her. And my dad.
And you’re right. I really got to figure something out about finding a job and car. Otherwise, I’m pretty much stuck here. My parents aren’t willing to buy me a car when I start driving, and neither are willing to buy me a phone. They said if I ever wanted an upgrade, I’d have to buy it myself. This phone I had was actually the first I ever owned (which I was only given when I entered highschool) and it was my dad’s hand-me-down.@Calistaa Yeah, I’d have to probably buy a house in walking distance to a job I can apply to. Plus save enough to pay for utilities till I start getting an income. That’s a lot of saving… I have 1k and that’s it. Which Ill bet isn’t enough lol. I’ll have to talk to someone about that sort of thing. Getting a job just to get enough money would take a few years. I’m currently in a program to collect some income for only 2 years, but it’s only going to get me 1k more. Which only 1k in a year…is really slow.
@Leader-Of-Femboys I do have the power to ruin her life. But I chose not to use what ammo I have because I’m not stooping to her level.
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@Duchess I mean yeah, after all, you’re not just buying the place to live in it, you need to still have enough to pay off the bills and buy necessities for inside
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