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cps, 911, 988, etc. they’ll help ya
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@laraiia said in Mom.:
Get. The fuck. Out of that place. Secretly call the cops, record every evidence you get, and try and stay with a friend even if your mom thinks she is scary. She is mad. Okay? Try and distance yourself. You aren’t fake. Please try and save yourself.
I’m always open on MPPC whenever you need anything.I don’t want to move schools, Have a new home, or nun. I’ve heard many bad stories. also my mom has convinced me that the police wouldn’t do anything because she’s a Sherriff In Dallas tx prison and she knows mostly everybody. Also they make good money and we live in a Townhome/apartment. She said that they’d do nothing for “eMoTiOnAl aBuSe” I’d also like to continue my studies to allow myself to cut all contact with her when I move out
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@Zøfya said in Mom.:
That’s highly abusive, you can call CPS or tell someone about her threats to get in contact with CPS. You do not need to stay in a toxic household like that. I wish I could say more and be of help but unfortunately I can’t. My dms are always open if you need someone to talk to or someone to listen. I wish the best for you
Can’t I don’t have a phone
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@Haven speaking of that. there are online services you should be able to have access too since you don’t have a phone
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@Haven Hii! I Hope you’re Okay<3
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@A38 said in Mom.:
about an hour ago
a mother from hell, get away from her and cut ties with her as soon as you are able to
Too young, Don’t have a phone, Can’t leave house cause too young.
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@laraiia thank you but I don’t like when People say “Youll be fine” But I understand your context <3
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@laraiia It was more than a few months ago when I was really Suicidal.
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https://www.chfs.ky.gov/agencies/dcbs/dpp/cpb/Pages/default.aspx this was the easiest one i could find
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@Haven Oh- sorry
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@Thetruepath said in Mom.:
988, etc. they’ll help ya
Dont have a phone I also can’t record anything for the same reason.
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@Haven then report her to the chief.
<-- yaser, help 'em out
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@Thetruepath im using 7 cups for therapy and advice on how to deal with her bull
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@YourLocalPansexual im okay talking to everyone :)
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@laraiia I don’t know who the Luetennet Is and I don’t go to her job
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@Haven That’s Good!! If You need Help then https://988lifeline.org/chat/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox This Is for Anything Moblie, pc, tablets, etc! <33
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@Haven I would but that would require personal information and your consent
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@Haven I’m honestly relieved to see you back here - I know things may have been unaltered, regarding the last time you left but I’m more than happy to know that you’re still here :)
This is honestly ridiculous, for your mom. I know that being disrespectful is one thing, but being at that level of vengeance, even when you don’t mean to disrespect her, isn’t right. I feel like she’s taking advantage of taunting you for no other reason at this point - the ‘don’t bring up old conversations’ part just seems like a petty excuse, let alone calling it manipulative. I think she’s being way too harsh in getting her ideas through you.
You’ve definitely made progress though, Haven. Maybe it isn’t progressing through your mom, but that’s her own issue, and her own problem that’s preventing her from realizing that you have gained progress. She shouldn’t intercept the steps that you’ve made for yourself. -
@Haven
“I will beat your mother (BAD F WORD) (BAD A WORD) if you don’t say Yes ma’am DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!”
DDDDD: Oh my gosh???! Who has to say yes ma’am to their parents these days :(? That’s not right. Like, I get it’s for respect, but this isn’t a military camp. It’s your own home.
“Oh and to make something clear, Don’t bring up old conversations. It’s manipulative and all you want is to entertain the conversation. It makes you fake, and Not genuine.”
Telling you you’re the manipulative one? For bringing up something she said before? I don’t know what it was, but I doubt it was wrong. Even if it was really wrong, no parent should treat you this poorly :( I am so sorry she said all that. That is so sad.
I feel that the progress I’ve made Never mattered. I feel that the promises she’s made about changing Never mattered and we are just going to keep going backwards.
I remember you sharing how you think she’s a narcissist. If that’s true (which I’d totally believe you), I got to say, there really won’t be a time there will be progress in that woman. Narcissists are mentally bound by their pride and are uncapable of inner change. It’s hard to accept but it’s true. Living with a narcissist, you have to learn to work around them. That’s kind of the only way to survive their rage, honestly.
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@Haven said in Mom.:
Duncan @Duchess @Depression-Anxiety-Therapy @everyone VIP Shazz_
Hi, you may know me as Haven, Blank, or YLNBK. But I’d like to be called Lele, My birth name’s nick name.
You may remember my post I made over a year ago.
https://mpp.community/forum/topic/19493/vent-3-tw-suicide-narcissistic-mothers-self-harm-depression-knives-tall-heights-and-other?_=1695313907044Yesterday she said "If you be disrespectful to me again I’ll Smash your head into one of these Mother (BAD F WORD) walls!" all because I brought up something she said in a previous conversation and because I said “I’ll study now.”
Me: BRO WTF KINDA MOM IS THAT???
because I was failing Physical science. after I left her presence she wanted me to confirm that I understood to not be disrespectful
I said “Yes ma’am” twice and she didn’t hear me. She STORMS into my room and said “I will beat your mother (BAD F WORD) (BAD A WORD) if you don’t say Yes ma’am DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!” and I say "I said yes ma’am twice. and she leaves.
Me: i am gonna beat your mom’s ass i swear.
I cry and she says, "I don’t care about no tears. AND CLEAN THAT ROOM!"
Me: *Now When YOU Cry, Don’t Be Mad When Haven Says That.
Later, we got into the car to go pick up my sister from School and she says, “Oh and to make something clear, Don’t bring up old conversations. It’s manipulative and all you want is to entertain the conversation. It makes you fake, and Not genuine.”
Me: BITCH WHAT?!
I feel that the progress I’ve made Never mattered. I feel that the promises she’s made about changing Never mattered and we are just going to keep going backwards. I’ve ended up relapsing into a deep spiral depression and I don’t know How long it’ll take to get out.Me: I Pray That You Are Okay, This Gives Me 5 days to pray for 5 days.
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