Mom.

[Cathy]

@Haven then report her to the chief.

[A Former User]

@Thetruepath im using 7 cups for therapy and advice on how to deal with her bull

[A Former User]

@YourLocalPansexual im okay talking to everyone :)

[A Former User]

@laraiia I don’t know who the Luetennet Is and I don’t go to her job

[A Former User]

@Haven That’s Good!! If You need Help then https://988lifeline.org/chat/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=onebox This Is for Anything Moblie, pc, tablets, etc! <33

[A Former User]

@Haven I would but that would require personal information and your consent

[Shazz_]

@Haven I’m honestly relieved to see you back here - I know things may have been unaltered, regarding the last time you left but I’m more than happy to know that you’re still here :)
This is honestly ridiculous, for your mom. I know that being disrespectful is one thing, but being at that level of vengeance, even when you don’t mean to disrespect her, isn’t right. I feel like she’s taking advantage of taunting you for no other reason at this point - the ‘don’t bring up old conversations’ part just seems like a petty excuse, let alone calling it manipulative. I think she’s being way too harsh in getting her ideas through you.
You’ve definitely made progress though, Haven. Maybe it isn’t progressing through your mom, but that’s her own issue, and her own problem that’s preventing her from realizing that you have gained progress. She shouldn’t intercept the steps that you’ve made for yourself.

[A Former User]

@Haven

“I will beat your mother (BAD F WORD) (BAD A WORD) if you don’t say Yes ma’am DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!”

DDDDD: Oh my gosh???! Who has to say yes ma’am to their parents these days :(? That’s not right. Like, I get it’s for respect, but this isn’t a military camp. It’s your own home.

“Oh and to make something clear, Don’t bring up old conversations. It’s manipulative and all you want is to entertain the conversation. It makes you fake, and Not genuine.”

Telling you you’re the manipulative one? For bringing up something she said before? I don’t know what it was, but I doubt it was wrong. Even if it was really wrong, no parent should treat you this poorly :( I am so sorry she said all that. That is so sad.

I feel that the progress I’ve made Never mattered. I feel that the promises she’s made about changing Never mattered and we are just going to keep going backwards.

I remember you sharing how you think she’s a narcissist. If that’s true (which I’d totally believe you), I got to say, there really won’t be a time there will be progress in that woman. Narcissists are mentally bound by their pride and are uncapable of inner change. It’s hard to accept but it’s true. Living with a narcissist, you have to learn to work around them. That’s kind of the only way to survive their rage, honestly.

[A Former User]

@Haven said in Mom.:

Duncan @Duchess @Depression-Anxiety-Therapy @everyone VIP Shazz_
Hi, you may know me as Haven, Blank, or YLNBK. But I’d like to be called Lele, My birth name’s nick name.
You may remember my post I made over a year ago.
https://mpp.community/forum/topic/19493/vent-3-tw-suicide-narcissistic-mothers-self-harm-depression-knives-tall-heights-and-other?_=1695313907044

Yesterday she said "If you be disrespectful to me again I’ll Smash your head into one of these Mother (BAD F WORD) walls!" all because I brought up something she said in a previous conversation and because I said “I’ll study now.”
Me: BRO WTF KINDA MOM IS THAT???
because I was failing Physical science. after I left her presence she wanted me to confirm that I understood to not be disrespectful
I said “Yes ma’am” twice and she didn’t hear me. She STORMS into my room and said “I will beat your mother (BAD F WORD) (BAD A WORD) if you don’t say Yes ma’am DO YOU UNDERSTAND?!” and I say "I said yes ma’am twice. and she leaves.
Me: i am gonna beat your mom’s ass i swear.
I cry and she says, "I don’t care about no tears. AND CLEAN THAT ROOM!"
Me: *Now When YOU Cry, Don’t Be Mad When Haven Says That.
Later, we got into the car to go pick up my sister from School and she says, “Oh and to make something clear, Don’t bring up old conversations. It’s manipulative and all you want is to entertain the conversation. It makes you fake, and Not genuine.”
Me: BITCH WHAT?!
I feel that the progress I’ve made Never mattered. I feel that the promises she’s made about changing Never mattered and we are just going to keep going backwards. I’ve ended up relapsing into a deep spiral depression and I don’t know How long it’ll take to get out.

Me: I Pray That You Are Okay, This Gives Me 5 days to pray for 5 days.

[A Former User]

@Haven wtf