Discovering my Sexuality: Asexuallity
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@lgbt @Vent @Cozy-Talk
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to talk to you all today about something that has been on my mind lately related to my sexuality. While I do identify as bisexual and demigirl, I have recently realized that certain aspects of sexual content make me feel uncomfortable. Specifically, I find that watching explicit material, whether it’s online or in person, can trigger feelings of unease and disconnection.Despite these feelings, I want to emphasize that I do still experience sexual attraction and can enjoy sexual thoughts and fantasies. However, actually witnessing explicit acts, either digitally or physically, can leave me feeling strange and detached.
After doing some research and reflecting on my experiences, I began wondering if perhaps I might fall under the asexual umbrella. For those unfamiliar with the term, asexuality refers to a lack of sexual attraction towards others. There are many different ways that individuals can identify within the asexual community, including gray ace (those who rarely experience sexual attraction) and demisexual (individuals who only experience sexual attraction after forming an emotional connection).
While I haven’t yet decided for sure where I land within the spectrum of asexuality, exploring this label has felt liberating and validating for me. It’s helped me understand why certain situations make me uncomfortable and given me language to describe my experiences more accurately.
If anyone else has had similar experiences or questions about their own sexuality, please don’t hesitate to reach out.
PS: This is a space where I would like to express some my feelings without fear of judgment or inappropriate comments. I want to clarify that I did not intend to offend anyone with any previous posts, and I expect the same respect and consideration from others here.
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@保志久美 Very interesting.
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@Duchess ??
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@保志久美 Im a good way.
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@Duchess oh
