okay so
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i havenāt been on much lately, itās a lot going on for me mentally and stuff. i lost one of my closest friends to a fent overdose and itās just a lot to deal with so i havenāt been on much. and honestly since itās happened iāve done some stuff that iām not exactly the proudest of? when i get into a bad state of mind i kinda lose my forethought and stop thinking and itās something iāve been trying to work on. so if i said or did something thatās hurt you in the past 2-3 months i apologize (unless you deserved it, dm me i f you wanna know if youāre included in this)
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finneass <33 uhm. not to really start anything here but uh. I donāt think everyone deserved you treating them like shit. I donāt think really anyone deserves to be treated like theyāre nothing and that theyāre just a mistake because quite frankly, I was one of those people who didnāt deserve your hate and you made me feel like everything was my fault and it wasnāt. Iām really sorry that you had to deal with losing a friend because I know all too well how that feels and I wouldnāt want to wish that pain on my worst enemy but I really donāt have anything else to say to you about anything. I really hope you get better but I wonāt be there to see that happen.
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finneass <33 said in okay so:
iāve done some stuff that iām not exactly the proudest of?
coughs in lowtiergod
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finneass <33 Firstly, Iām sorry to hear about your friend. It really is a tragedy losing someone you care about. I just hope itās not being used as an excuse for all the things Ive been told and seen lately. Kind of hoped to leave mppc in the hands of someone who cared about it the way I do and lead by example. Like Rylie said, absolutely nobody deserves to be told to literally kill themselves. Name drop or not, we all know what thatās all about. I know you have beef with certain people on and off this forum, but dont you think itās gotten out of hand? The way things have been running needs to change or there will be nothing left. People have left this forum because of itās management. I know weāre all human as you like to remind us, so Iām not saying you have to be perfect, but the lines thatāve been crossed were basic expectations of any human being, admin or not: treat everybody with respect.
I leave for 3 months and this is what happens. Pretty disappointed.
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piddles,
Excellent response to what seems to be a conundrum for Finn. Their childish and lackluster attempts at rectifying prior issues will not cut it for me, others, and the community in general. Hiding behind an excuse and not just owning it beforehand is a really poor choice to make. Their unideal response is not something encouraging especially when you take numerous factors into consideration.finneass <33,
You should legitimately own your mistakes instead of providing an excuse that truthfully, not many are willing to accept in this day and time. It is unfortunate that those prior events occurred in the first place, but this pathetic attempt of an apology isnāt going to stop people from being at bay with you. -
finneass <33 said in okay so:
i havenāt been on much lately, itās a lot going on for me mentally and stuff. i lost one of my closest friends to a fent overdose and itās just a lot to deal with so i havenāt been on much. and honestly since itās happened iāve done some stuff that iām not exactly the proudest of? when i get into a bad state of mind i kinda lose my forethought and stop thinking and itās something iāve been trying to work on. so if i said or did something thatās hurt you in the past 2-3 months i apologize (unless you deserved it, dm me i f you wanna know if youāre included in this)
Hi Finn, Long time no see/talk.
First thing Iād like to say is, I am sorry for your loss, never a good thing to lose a friend.
However, I have to say, in my absence, to see the things Iāve seen, and how this place has crumbled under your hands, is despicable, depressing even.
I thought better of you than this. Hell you even had me fooled for a while there.i thought I taught you better than to be this way, But Iām just gonna say the same thing everyone else did.
I donāt give a shit what the scenario is, who name dropped who, or what have you, telling someone to end their own life is deplorable beyond any comprehension. You used to bash, and even downright harass a certain other user for the same kind of things, but as it seems, he still has a hold on your emotions.
Do everyone a quick favor and step down. Give yourself up, take a break. Do the mature, admirable thing and take responsibility for what youāve been doing.
Yours truly,
An old Friend.
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The circumstances you find yourself in do not excuse you from your terrible actions in the past. Iām sorry, but I do not see this as an appropriate way to respond over the loss of a life. We, as a community, are truly sorry for your loss. But, donāt take your anger out on others. Itās not a good look, and especially from a person weāre supposed to look up to. Very, very recently, one of my family members who I loved passed away, and Iām not here going around taking my anger out on people who do not deserve it. Others had nothing to do with it. I know itās stressful, but I deal with stress by taking it on a day-to-day object, like a pillow. Not a person. Please do better.
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finneass <33 i donāt really speak to you that much, but i do know for a fact youāve been rude to a lot of us. being a staff member doesnāt explain why you have to complain and be rude to us just because weāre trying to help, because thatās not cool. iām really sorry that you lost your friend, because that sucks. but that really canāt excuse your behavior to all of us.
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Seeing that there are other people voicing their stories and thoughts, I might as well add mine. For anyone who is confused, let me keep it simple. Finn made a groupchat with various users and exposed private information about a user some of you may know by the name of TTP. Daily, he was insulted and mocked in that gc from what Iāve heard. His motherās private information is on there as well. As far as I know, that groupchat is still up. And some members of that groupchat are currently fellow moderators of the modteam. People who followed and encouraged this type of behaviour. People who are also in our very community- on the moderator team. This is one of many examples where Finn has been immature, cruel, and unnecessary. He has put his friends into higher places simply because of their status, not their activity, competence, or readiness to help the community. I am appalled at the way my higher up is behaving, and I will not stand for it. Itās time I speak out about it. For anyone who wants pictures of the people who were seen in the doxxing group chat, message me and I will send them to you by Monday.
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@Bandit WHAT IN THE FU- KENJI PART 2???
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@Bandit ādear adonisā¦ā
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Z zofya locked this topic on
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Guys letās not talk about this in a topic please, take it to dms
