transgender trauma/dysphoria memes
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@Calistaa same :[ i dont get why life has to be like this but ofc some day im gonna pay for second puberty
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@That-Pretty-Femboy The main reason why I don’t cut my hair is because every time I get even just a small trim my grandma goes “OMG WHO CUT YOUR HAIR!!!” and it’s like… Grandma, this is good for my hair…?
Apart from that, I feel like I’m being pressured by my family to keep my hair just because my mom isn’t with us anymore. They constantly talk about how she had gorgeous hair and I’m the only thing they have left of her, and how devastated they’d be if I cut my hair and that my hair is super pretty and they hope I grow it out to be super long…
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They shouldn’t be forcing you to grow out your hair just because of your mom, if you wanna cut it you should cut it @Calistaa
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@Calistaa oh no- im sorry hun, tbh my mom didnt let me get my hair cut, i went to a friends house and they helped me cut it into a very bad pixie cut, i got yelled cuz my dad would have never let me do that, my mom wouldnt either but i wasnt about to keep looking like blonde dora even as [at the time] a closeted trans boy
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@Calistaa in the end, if nothing else hair grows back
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@That-Pretty-Femboy Aw :(
My family would let me cut my hair and would fully support my decision, I’m just not up for the guilt tripping and convincing they’ll give me. -
shits yourself intensely and painfully.
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@Calistaa the whole reason i couldnt get it was cuz my mom said my dad loved my hair. i never once cut it more than trimming my bangs until after my dad died and my mom cut my hair about to like mid-neck length and bleached it when she bleached hers, i looked like blonde dora it was terrible
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@That-Pretty-Femboy I can imagine it…
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@Calistaa if clay allows me to i think i have a picture of clay with his blonde hair
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@That-One-Dead-Man post it man, i dont have any of them anymore
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@Xavier-M mm…
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I wanna start dressing more masculine but my parents don’t support me that much, my mom does but my dad doesn’t really,
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@finn-kinda-hot oh, i’m sorry man. u should be able to dress however u want tbh.
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Because I feel so uncomfortable feminine clothes even though I rock them not gonna lie, its not me
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@That-Pretty-Femboy alrighty
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@finn-kinda-hot I feel like it’s mostly the dads who don’t support i could be wrong tho
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@finn-kinda-hot My dad would support me, and in fact everyone in my family would, I just really hate the way I know they’d complain about it. I’m sorry your family doesn’t allow you to be who you want to be. :(
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Because 1 time I was playing around in my male cousin’s closet and I put on a whole bunch of his clothes and I was just so happy cause it felt so right
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@That-One-Dead-Man Oh my… ;_:
