Relationship With Your Mom Story?
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@Duchess
Yeah. .I don't exactly know why its so hard for some adults to admit they're in the wrong.But its also not just adults too. -
{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} True. Kids are hard to handle too. I do question if there are users here who talk about a difficult parent if they, too, are being difficult. But I don’t usually ask.
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@Duchess
Yeah. I just prefer to ask my eldest sister [As she's an adult] and if she says no THEN that's when I ask my mom -
I don’t have anything to say negative about mine as she’s genuinely a caring person and has never mistreated me
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@Duchess I’ve sprinkled little details of my relationship with my mom here and there.
Most people already have somewhat of an Idea but I don’t get along with my mother, not in the childish parent-child relationship way, more of the “She abandoned me to pursue drugs and never wanted kids in the first place” kind of way.
We don’t see eye to eye, and in her eyes, I’ll always be her little failure. But that’s okay, I don’t have any desire to see her or impress her, Ive made it clear to her I want little to do with her.
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@Duchess i did move on i just hate her for it
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@CaptainPresto said in Relationship With Your Mom Story?:
I’ll always be her little failure
She’s pretty much the one.
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Why do all of you hate your moms?? One day she is gonna die and you will Never see her again.
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@1zzylmao
I don't hate my mom, I love her and I make sure to show that even though she doesn't reciprocate it back -
@JePhil That’s great to hear :)
@CaptainPresto Ill always see that is pretty inspiring. I think that’s kind of a goal to anyone who’s dealing with a genuinely difficult/toxic parent. I’m glad to know you overcame what she did.
Yaboralski I see. But a part of moving on is forgiving as well. Which means you don’t waste your mind space with hate on her at all.
@1zzylmao Some people’s mother’s can be toxic enough that their death isn’t as hard to get sad over. Some. Definitely not all. It can be hard to deal with difficult parents and still have compassion and care for them. It’s important to care about them, but to actually, that’s to an extent. Like Presto was saying about his mom, some parents you just have to stop caring about. I get it’s hard to accept if you have a nice mother, but that fact of life is, not every mother is great, decent, or even healthy at all.
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@Duchess said in Relationship With Your Mom Story?:
not every mother is great, decent, or even healthy at all.
yea my mom wasent either but i didnt hate her
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@1zzylmao Well, like I said. It’s not easy to not feel anger for some people at someone who’s supposed to be something they’re not. But I do agree, hating is bad and no one should hate their moms no matter what.
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@Duchess Yeeaaahh.
