Sad realization
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@whatswrongwith-carrie im pretty sure its just the way he was raised in his time- so it cant be entirely his fault, but im sorry to hear your father is like that, if it helps at all- everyone here will support you, even me
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@Adam never?
๐จ๐ธ๐พโ๐ป๐ฎ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ด๐ฎ ๐ถ๐ ๐ธ๐๐ท ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐ผ๐ธ๐ท๐ช๐ต ๐ซ๐ป๐ช๐ท๐ญ ๐ธ๐ฏ ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ธ๐ฒ๐ท <3
๐ฎ๐โฏโฏ๐๐พโฏ, ๐พ'๐ โโด๐๐๐ถ ๐โฏโฏ๐น ๐โด๐ ๐โด ๐ ๐๐ ๐โด๐๐ ๐ปโฏ๐ ๐ท๐๐ถ๐พ๐ ๐ธโฏ๐๐๐ ๐โดโโฏ๐๐ฝโฏ๐ ๐ถ๐๐น ๐โด๐๐ ๐๐พ๐๐ฝ ๐โฏ ๐ฝโฏ๐โฏ. -
@whatswrongwith-carrie never
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When people make vent posts like this, they know that itโs just because their parents were raised to think that way. In telling them that, you might as well be trying to justify that personโs parents behavior and that they shouldnโt be โtoo upset about itโ just because the parent is who they are. You may not think youโre being harmful, but please watch what you do and say. You are not helping.
@Adam Rabbit -
Iโd be pretty upset at you myself if you tried to justify my dadโs behavior towards me. So, respectfully, try avoid doing it to this individual.
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@zack Iโm just saying it the way it is
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@Adam doesnโt mean itโs a nice thing to say though
this was under โasking for supportโ not โasking for mean truths I already knewโ -
Iโm sorry that Iโm so fucking blunt the way in the way I talk, and I do support them, I truly do, because I know how they feel, my parents are the same fucking way
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It isnโt necessarily the parents fault theyโre not open-minded, and it is mostly because they grew up in a generation where this shit wasnโt cool. Nevertheless, though, if they canโt change and you donโt want to either, you donโt need to waste your time talking them through it or wasting your time dealing with shitty parents that put their children through emotional harm just because they donโt particularly agree with such and such. Waiting may be difficult, but one day youโll be an adult, you can move out, get your own new life and push them out of it and cut them off like puppet strings.
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@zack iโm not cutting them off unless i reallyn need to
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@whatswrongwith-carrie Your choice, not mine. Even so, youโll realize how necessary it is to cut out emotional harm from your life, even if you donโt really get that now.
