I feel so stupid

[A Former User]

I feel like everything i post is stupid or not funny, and i’m trying to put all the attention onto me.
Idk if it’s because i have a spicy brain (adhd) but i overthink things so much, and i also say things without thinking.
Past experiences with friends not actually being my friends happened, and im still a little worried from that.
I have insecurities, but those all feel stupid because ‘i worry too much’, so every time i vent, i feel worried and judged. IM ALWAYS DOING SOMETHING WRONG

Im sorry if this didn’t make sense
I’m sorry if i ever accedentally hurt you
I’m sorry for being too much at times
I hope some of you can forgive me.

[YourLocalDumbass]

@_e-r-r-o-r-w-i-t-h-u-s-e-r-n-a-m-e girl/boy/non-binary pal
are you my twin?
look, i go through the same stuff, and being honest, it sucks. but, staying in that mindset makes it worse! my dad always says “if you think youre gonna fail, then you will.”
mind over matter.
so, i get it. but, its much better to just not care. people are gonna be shitty, and theres really nothing we can do.
we all do stupid stuff, and we all have problems. it is all of our jobs to help each other with them.
besides i think youre cool.
have a cookie

[A Former User]

Toast™ inhales cookie

[jun]

Consider taking all different kinds of advice, rather than just have people tell you that it’s never you and it’s always the other person. When it happens repeatedly, you are more often at fault more than

1. You can accept
2. People will tell you

People will try to be too kind to you and spare your feelings.
What I’m here to tell you is:
You should pay attention to what you’ve said and go back to make sure what really happened, have an open mind and consider the things YOU said. Are YOU wrong? Is it YOUR fault? Did you mean to? Should you have done/said it? Was it really important if you did or not or are they being dramatic?
Who is at fault for the falling out?

Accept when you are wrong and grow from that; trust me.
It’ll certainly help you more than believing you did nothing wrong.