Sleepovers suck (TW: SA!!!) (5/24/2025)
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π€πΈππΎππ πππππΎππΆπΈππ€ Dude- I- Thatβs not- Just stay safe- I wouldnβt trust the little fucker if i were you
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Blake why would I? I trusted her, and she broke that trust like it was nothing.
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Blake Iβm justβ¦scared, now. I thought she was cool, and now Iβm just scared. I donβt even have any other words to describe it.
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π€πΈππΎππ πππππΎππΆπΈππ€ Sheβs just a fucking perv- sheβs not gonna get very far in life. She needs to end up in Juvie
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Blake I can almost guarantee she wonβt.
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Des, I will reply to this post when I get home. Right now I canβt read it but I promise I will. Please message me and remind me
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ππ rylie if it needs to be taken down, just let me know
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Des,
I just want to let you know before I say anything that this post wont be deleted or whatever unless you personally want it to be.
Okay. Time to say some things.
First of all, I just want to say thank you for sharing this. I know it mustβve taken a lot of strength and vulnerability to put this into words, and I want you to know that I hear you and I believe you. What happened to you was not your fault in any way, and Iβm so, so sorry that you had to go through something like that.
You didnβt do anything wrong. Saying βI donβt knowβ doesnβt mean you gave permission. It doesnβt mean you were okay with what was happening. It means you were scared, overwhelmed, and frozen in a moment where your brain and body didnβt feel safe. That response is real. Itβs valid. And itβs actually very common in trauma situations β itβs called a freeze response, and it happens when someone is in danger but doesnβt know how to escape or canβt find the words to fight back. Your body was trying to protect you in the only way it could. You are not weak for that.
Itβs devastating that someone not only crossed your boundaries but ignored the signs that you were uncomfortable, scared, and not okay. That was a violation of your trust, and it never shouldβve happened. And the fact that sheβs younger doesnβt excuse anything. What she did was manipulative and predatory. Age doesnβt erase harm.
I can feel how much this has affected you, because Iβve been through things like this before too. The anger, confusion, sadness, and shame, and I just want you to know that none of those feelings are your fault. Youβre not overreacting. Youβre not being dramatic. Youβre reacting like a human being who was hurt in a situation where you didnβt feel safe, and thatβs completely valid.
Iβm proud of you for telling Bradlee. That took courage. And Iβm glad he listened and believed you. Even if he couldnβt fix what happened, having someone in your corner who takes you seriously matters. I know the idea of parents finding out can feel terrifying, especially with the fear of things blowing up or getting worse but please donβt ever feel like youβre responsible for protecting her or anyone else from the consequences of what she did. You are not the one who created this situation, she did.
If and when youβre ready, I really encourage you to talk to someone who can help more directly a counselor, therapist, or trusted adult who knows how to handle this stuff. Especially if they didnβt tell their parents about this. You deserve support, not silence. You shouldnβt have to carry this alone. I know it might feel overwhelming or scary to open that door, but there are people who can guide you through it.
You are not useless. You are not worthless. You are not broken. What happened to you was wrong, but it doesnβt define who you are. Youβre still whole. Still worthy of love, respect, and safety. And Iβm really proud of you for being brave enough to speak up even if it didnβt feel brave at the time.
Please donβt hesitate to reach out to me if you want someone to talk to, vent to, or just sit with you in this. Youβre not alone in this, even if it sometimes feels like it. Iβll listen and Iβll be here for you every step of the way.
This isnβt going to go away but itβs a good thing to talk to someone about it that has gone through something similar because then they know how to maybe help and comfort more. Trust me, Iβve been through this. You can talk to me whenever and Iβll tell you everything.
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ππ rylie hoooly shit i totally forgot I posted this, because Iβve kind of just pushed this out of my mind, and I quite literally almost started sobbing-
youβre too nice to be hereeeeeeee <33