Need to put this somewhere.
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Nobody listens to me.Absolutely nobody.
Even when I am trying to help them out.Makes me feel like I’m someone that can be pushed away and replaced.
I wish I could really say I didn’t care, but it genuinely hurts.
I mean maybe at some point I will find someone who listens to me? But, who am I kidding.
Once I find them, they’ll leave before I get a word in.
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I’m so used to listening.
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Petrol Consumer Attention seeking is not the answer.
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Petrol Consumer if anything it makes it worse until there’s a breaking point.
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It was a cry for help but thanks.
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Petrol Consumer But distancing yourself will also make it worse, it’s best to tell your parental figure everything.
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Petrol Consumer and you’re welcome.
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I hope you genuinely realize that going online and venting is my last stitch attempt in finding comfort. If it’s my last stitch effort in comfort that means that a “parental figure” clearly isn’t available to comfort me. Writing about how I felt is literally just me taking stuff off my chest and sending it somewhere someone else can read and understand.
I also hope you understand that you made me feel worse, and that thank you wasn’t genuine.
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And to also add to that, this is a fucking vent category. It’s meant for people to post about hard times. If you don’t want to be exposed to that then do not interact.
People aren’t here to “attention seek” asshole they’re here for people to read, listen, and show they understand or at least resonate with the vent in a way that also comforts them.
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Petrol Consumer I wasn’t trying to sound like that, honest.
I was genuinely trying to help you, I’m sorry. -
I understand that, but in some cases, people just want to be heard. I appreciate the thought behind it.