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@Cozy-Talk It’s important to forgive people, not only for other people’s sake, but for your own. It isn’t like you have to forget what they did, but it means you are willing to move on with or even away from that person. Some people think that forgiveness means they have to allow someone back in their life. It is your hand letting go of the anger from that person. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always mean you’re not still hurt by it or that the effects of that person faded.
Im not sure if I’m an easy forgiver or not. I think it depends on who and what exactly the person did. I definitely know I’m a non-forgetter. If you do me wrong, I will certainly remember it.
How easy is is for you to forgive someone?
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@Duchess Facts
Me literally
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@Duchess said in How easy is it to forgive?:
How easy is is for you to forgive someone?
im a very caring and forgiving person. I forgive someone 99% percent of the time after something happens.
however there’s that 1% of people that cannot be forgiven.
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For me, it really depends on how “hurt” I am by the person’s actions.
If the person does something light, I usually forgive them within a few days or weeks
If it’s something moderate, usually within a few months
And finally if it’s something completely harsh I most of the time don’t forgive at all and try to distance myself from said person.
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It really depends on the severity. But I’d like to say that I forgive pretty fast. I mean there’s specific situations where I’ll never forgive someone, but about 80% of the time I can talk it out with people. If it’s fresh on my mind I’ll definitely be mad about it but as time passes I just let it go because I don’t want those past arguments to influence me to be a negative person
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@Duchess I forgive but I never forget. Plus you get 2 chances then no
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i rarely forgive, i move on but i don’t forgive most times. i’ll appreciate the apology and move on but forgiving is so hard for me because i have trust issues
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Apparently some people often think I either forgive or forget, maybe both, and a lot of the time I do forget, which leads me to forgive, because I can’t really hold something against someone if I don’t even know what they did wrong.
But when I do remember, I don’t necessarily forgive, no matter how friendly I may be around them. But I do get over it.
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@Duchess I have a very simple rule i live about,
And that is forgive, never forget.
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@Duchess said in How easy is it to forgive?:
How easy is is for you to forgive someone?
I tend to be more of the naive type when it comes to trusting and forgiving. It normally just depends on the situation but normally I forgive and forget pretty easily.
Probably something I should learn not to do lmao
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Forgiveness can be good or bad, depending on the situation.
Why am I still here? ☠️
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if someone wants to be forgiven by me, they’d have to earn my trust again to forgive them
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For me, it's never been easy too forgive people, I tend too hold grudges against people for quite a while. Its usually too please people [I'm a major people pleaser] -
I forgive those who deserve it, if they don’t they shall suffer the burden of being forgotten
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I don’t just forgive anyone to be honest. I forgive you once you’ve redeemed yourself worthy to talk to me.
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