How easy is it to forgive?
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Duchess said in How easy is it to forgive?:
How easy is is for you to forgive someone?
im a very caring and forgiving person. I forgive someone 99% percent of the time after something happens.
however thereโs that 1% of people that cannot be forgiven.
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For me, it really depends on how โhurtโ I am by the personโs actions.
If the person does something light, I usually forgive them within a few days or weeks
If itโs something moderate, usually within a few months
And finally if itโs something completely harsh I most of the time donโt forgive at all and try to distance myself from said person.
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It really depends on the severity. But Iโd like to say that I forgive pretty fast. I mean thereโs specific situations where Iโll never forgive someone, but about 80% of the time I can talk it out with people. If itโs fresh on my mind Iโll definitely be mad about it but as time passes I just let it go because I donโt want those past arguments to influence me to be a negative person
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Duchess I forgive but I never forget. Plus you get 2 chances then no
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i rarely forgive, i move on but i donโt forgive most times. iโll appreciate the apology and move on but forgiving is so hard for me because i have trust issues
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Apparently some people often think I either forgive or forget, maybe both, and a lot of the time I do forget, which leads me to forgive, because I canโt really hold something against someone if I donโt even know what they did wrong.
But when I do remember, I donโt necessarily forgive, no matter how friendly I may be around them. But I do get over it.
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Duchess I have a very simple rule i live about,
And that is forgive, never forget.
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Duchess said in How easy is it to forgive?:
How easy is is for you to forgive someone?
I tend to be more of the naive type when it comes to trusting and forgiving. It normally just depends on the situation but normally I forgive and forget pretty easily.
Probably something I should learn not to do lmao
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Forgiveness can be good or bad, depending on the situation.
Why am I still here? โ ๏ธ
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if someone wants to be forgiven by me, theyโd have to earn my trust again to forgive them
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For me, it's never been easy too forgive people, I tend too hold grudges against people for quite a while. Its usually too please people [I'm a major people pleaser]
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I forgive those who deserve it, if they donโt they shall suffer the burden of being forgotten
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I donโt just forgive anyone to be honest. I forgive you once youโve redeemed yourself worthy to talk to me.
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