I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.
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Blake yeah, thatโs fair.
And like, while I donโt feel safe in my home sometimes, I donโt feel unsafe enough to go through that. And even if I did, Iโd probably just crash at my friendโs place, whoโs a few blocks over. -
I have a bad habit of picking scabs too-
But your mom did NOT have to be so extra about it and take your phone away.
She could have found a way to break that bad habit instead on going straight for unnecessary discipline.โฏโ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ข โก ๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ ๐ค๐๐๐๐๐๐ฃโ โ
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@Raven-Rae the thing is, Iโve been doing it a lot more lately, and she keeps telling me to stop, have me put bandaids (which just come off) on, etc etc.
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@Raven-Rae and obvi i didnโt tell her bc I didnโt think it was relevant. And bc she gets upset at it.
Yes, i know it leaves scars, but I canโt help it. -
@Raven-Rae so yeah, now Iโm probably going to get in even more trouble if she goes through my phone (my dc specifically) and sees that I have a bf, bc I havenโt told her yet. Itโs only been a month, but Iโm not ready to tell her yet. I want to make sure I really like this guy and that things are going to be good.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp
Okay, thatโs one of the things you should actually avoid doing when you have strict parents.
When you donโt tell them what you hide, they will always find out eventually and that what leads to discipline. Then they yap 5-30 mins straight to make sure you never try it again.
The cursed thing is the fact we minors may attempt to go back to whatever we get in trouble for just to get disciplined by our parents again-โฏโ ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ข โก ๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ ๐ค๐๐๐๐๐๐ฃโ โ
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@Raven-Rae yeah, but like, I told her about my last partner, and she didnโt like him.
thatโs the bastard who cheated on me, who didnโt actually love me, whom I poured my heart out too. <33
So I want to make sure that likeโฆweโre doing okay, because I donโt want it to end like last time. -
@Raven-Rae like i get it, but Iโm scared because of last time.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp Itโs all about the experiences with who youโre with now, not what happened in the past experiences. <3
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@Raven-Rae yeah, but he was kinda justโฆreally bad, and I got maybe a little more affected than I would have liked. So hence the โI have to relearn how to love and be lovedโ thing.
Like, she liked my first girlfriend. She was nice, but the guy was justโฆnot it. -
@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp So, she was okay and liked the girl?
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp it does. me and my brother were in foster care for almost a year bc of my ex stepdad. and then the case against my ex stepdad and what he did to me wasnโt fair. he got 4 years and probation for the rest of his life, so. I havenโt really told anyone on here so Iโm keeping it to that and not talking about anymore of it but yeah, the system sucks.
