I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.
-
@Raven-Rae the thing is, Iβve been doing it a lot more lately, and she keeps telling me to stop, have me put bandaids (which just come off) on, etc etc.
-
@Raven-Rae and obvi i didnβt tell her bc I didnβt think it was relevant. And bc she gets upset at it.
Yes, i know it leaves scars, but I canβt help it. -
@Raven-Rae so yeah, now Iβm probably going to get in even more trouble if she goes through my phone (my dc specifically) and sees that I have a bf, bc I havenβt told her yet. Itβs only been a month, but Iβm not ready to tell her yet. I want to make sure I really like this guy and that things are going to be good.
-
@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp
Okay, thatβs one of the things you should actually avoid doing when you have strict parents.
When you donβt tell them what you hide, they will always find out eventually and that what leads to discipline. Then they yap 5-30 mins straight to make sure you never try it again.
The cursed thing is the fact we minors may attempt to go back to whatever we get in trouble for just to get disciplined by our parents again-πππ'ππ πππππππππ !!! β―β α΄β β―°‘β§Β‘β§β‘>β <β‘β ββ β½β β
"Think fast chucklenuts flashbang" - Scout -
@Raven-Rae yeah, but like, I told her about my last partner, and she didnβt like him.
thatβs the bastard who cheated on me, who didnβt actually love me, whom I poured my heart out too. <33
So I want to make sure that likeβ¦weβre doing okay, because I donβt want it to end like last time. -
@Raven-Rae like i get it, but Iβm scared because of last time.
-
@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp Itβs all about the experiences with who youβre with now, not what happened in the past experiences. <3
-
@Raven-Rae yeah, but he was kinda justβ¦really bad, and I got maybe a little more affected than I would have liked. So hence the βI have to relearn how to love and be lovedβ thing.
Like, she liked my first girlfriend. She was nice, but the guy was justβ¦not it. -
@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp So, she was okay and liked the girl?
-
@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp it does. me and my brother were in foster care for almost a year bc of my ex stepdad. and then the case against my ex stepdad and what he did to me wasnβt fair. he got 4 years and probation for the rest of his life, so. I havenβt really told anyone on here so Iβm keeping it to that and not talking about anymore of it but yeah, the system sucks.
