How does one grieve?

[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

I recently lost one of my friends due to a sh00ting, and I don't really know how to feel, I don't really like crying but am I supposed to cry?

I feel guilty and ashamed of myself when I see people cry when they grieve but I'm not.

What am I supposed to feel/do?

[A Former User]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} ohhh… It’s gonna hit like a ton of bricks. Either that or your brain is ultimately gonna suppress it to make yourself feel better. I’m truly sorry to hear this and my condolences go out to you and that kids family.

[finn.in.outer.space.]

Uh, you’re not gonna feel anything for a while. You either cry immediately or fon’t know hwo to and then one day it just hits you, and you’re gonna cry for a long time. It’s gonna hurt, I know the pain. I’m so sorry that happened YLL

[Shazz_]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} Oh gosh :(
I’m really sorry, YLL - condolences to you, and their family
I know it can feel confusing and complicated, with the bombardment of emotion, but none of this was your doing, and you shouldn’t feel ashamed about anything. It may feel like the right thing but it’s okay to let your feelings out. There is no shame in that, no matter the instance.
There isn’t necessarily much you can do, but to send prayers and condolences to their family. Sadness could arrive later on, harder and deeper than what you may feel/not feel right now.
Again I’m sorry about your loss, YLL. If you need someone to talk to, were here for you :)

[Top Tier JJK Enjoyer]

I guess do whatever

[Top Tier JJK Enjoyer]

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[Top Tier JJK Enjoyer]

@tuleperaconlapapaya nah

[Top Tier JJK Enjoyer]

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[A Former User]

Something I’ve come to notice is that when people don’t immediately cry or feel upset when they lose someone is that they’re just in shock. One day you’ll go back and think about what happened and you’ll feel sentimental about it when you finally stop and think, “damn, that was a real person living a life once. I knew that person.” It happens to me frequently.

[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

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[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

@Cyx
@finneass
@Sen
Shazz_

Thank you for all the advice/info and help :] It's greatly appreciated and I wish all of you a great and happy life <3

[A Former User]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} Pretty sure that the account he mentioned was harassing you, and he was defending you, LOL. All their posts were purged, so you wouldn’t know that.

[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

@Sen Ah okay, ty for the heads up :]

[A Former User]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} FAT

[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

@rikordo What?

[A Former User]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} bozo

[꧁Your Local Lesbian꧂]

@rikordo What's ur problem w/ me? I haven't done anything to you, I don't even know who you are. .

[A Former User]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} I’m sorry for your loss, and I do the same thing. I’m weird with it, when i hear someone died, or see someone crying- I- I kinda don’t know what to say/act and i sound weird sometimes. or look stupid like i don’t care. I also lost someone not that long ago and It’s something that’s hard to react to.

[] - Jinx - []

shit yll im so sorry to hear that that happened. i dont know how to grieve, but i can only assume that it is normal to not cry immidiatley. all i can do is offer my condolences. im so sorry

[regret]

{_𝐘𝐋𝐋_} I hope you feel better soon, your friend never deserved to pass away that young.

R.I.P