Why do people have to be creepy and weird and not pick up on social cuesssssss ๐คข
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Okay. Iโm going to use fake names to keep identities safe because thatโs the right thing to do. Also this is going to be long. REALLY. LONG.
ME: Jay (Just a kinda shortened version of my name.) (She/Her)
MY BF: Lee (Also a kinda shortened version of his name) (He/They) (Trans)
THE CREEPY BITCH: Audie (Shortened name.) (She/Her) (Also trans)So basically, Lee has Audieโs Discord, but they havenโt really talked since last year because something happened between them and it got awkward. Iโm in my schoolโs theatre troupe, and unfortunately, so is Audie. Weโre preparing for our show that was in like a month or so, and she starts talking to me while Iโm painting a piece of set, because they have like literally nothing to do.
(Not sure why they didnโt just ask the director for something to doโฆ)Iโm mostly focused on painting, so like, Iโm not paying a shit ton of attention to them, and theyโre justโฆCIRCLING ME? As Iโm painting. Not sure why. Anyway, weโre chatting, and Iโm not getting great vibes from them, and weโre talking about some of my friends, and how they tried to ask some of my friends out before. (First it was Ace, then it was Lee, then it was Saf. All rejected.) I bring up that me and Lee are actually now dating, and sheโs like โOh really? Thatโs- uhโฆGood for you.โ They seemedโฆidk. Disappointed, maybe?
Time passes, we only see each other at theatre set builds, so Iโm not too mad about it. HOWEVER. As Iโm sitting at lunch with one of my friends, they bring up Audie. (I didnโt really know her name at this point in time, so Iโm like who tf is that, and they explain.) Iโm like โoh shit, I know her-โ and so my BF, Lee, brings up some messages that Audie had sent, which were things like โI heard you and Jay were dating. Good for you, you lucky bastard. Donโt fuck it upโor do fuck it up AND PUT IN A GOOD WORD FOR ME.โWHAT THE FUCK. NOT ONLY THAT, BUT THEY WOULD KEEP MESSAGING LEE ABOUT ME.
Eventually, we had a cast party, and they were sitting two seats away from me. (Also for the record, I wasnโt wearing anything super extravagant, I was just wearing a tunic because it was easy to take off and change clothes/shoes in. Apparently, Audie had messaged Lee and said โFuck, Jay looks so pretty right now.โALSO! NOT ONLY HAS AUDIE BEEN SAYING THAT KINDA SHIT, THEYโVE BEEN KINDA PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE TO LEE ABOUT ME.
AND THEN! When I show clear disinterest in Audie, they keep trying to talk to me.
Like recently, I had a really cool ass group of people come to my town. Theyโre called the Young Americans, and they teach you this Dance/Singing/Musical Theatre show in 3 days. SOMEHOW AUDIE FOUND OUT ABOUT ME BEING IN IT, AND SHOWED UP TO THE PERFORMANCE YESTERDAY. They were wandering around the YA cast, and the workshop kids, looking like they were looking for someone. One of my friends asked if she was looking for someone and they said no. However, they kept weirdly following my vague direction. Whenever I would turn around to try and find another cast member so I could have them sign my shirt, there she was. We kept making eye contact for a few seconds every time. Thankfully, I had a couple friends who I explained the situation to and helped me keep away from her. They would like block me from her sight, etc.Whatever. Anyway, I donโt like her. She creeps me the fuck out, and honestly, sheโs just kinda a dick to my bf. Iโm trying to get Lee to tell Audie to stop because sheโs making both of us uncomfortable and to block her if that doesnโt work, but we both also love shitโtalking her. (Also technically itโs truthโtalking about a shitty person lmao-)
So, Iโm nervous to see if theyโve messaged Lee about me avoiding them after the Young Americans. I just- I donโt know what to do. I canโt exactly file a harassment claim through the school, because they havenโt done anything to me personally. Iโm pissed, and I have no idea what to do about it. Fucking help.EDIT: They also figured out what lunch I have/who I sit with on what days and they figured out where I am during 7th hour. (Which is the library. Theyโve been there for the last couple of days and watch me and my friend give our computers back and leave.)
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0
Thats so fucked up
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@Duke I KNOW! She seems like the kind of person who wonโt take โnoโ for an answer if she tries something, and itโs scary.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 Damn, Iโm sorry to hear that shitโs happening to you! I had a friend group who had a kid tag along and they donโt like him at all. He doesnโt pick up on social cues and literally doesnโt leave them alone.
I doubt that itโs as serious as your scenario, but itโs crappy nevertheless! I hope things get better ^ -
@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 use those goth thic boots every goth has (this is half a joke) and USE THEM if she tries ANYTHING
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@Bandit Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I just hope that she tries something (not too serious) so I can file a harassment claim, you know?
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@Duke God, I wish I had platforms lmao.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 USE THEM cHUNKY HEELS AND KICK HER WOMAN RIGHTS RIGHT OFF
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@Duke LMAOOOOOO
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Y Your Local Shadow Simp referenced this topic on
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iโd punch her already if i were you, but again i have not enough patience for all that shit
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Bi-Myself Honestly, I would, but I have no reason to yet. She hasnโt tried to touch me or anything, to which then I would file a harassment claim and go to the cops- :P
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@Your-Local-Reaper damn