Why do people have to be creepy and weird and not pick up on social cuesssssss π€’
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Okay. Iβm going to use fake names to keep identities safe because thatβs the right thing to do. Also this is going to be long. REALLY. LONG.
ME: Jay (Just a kinda shortened version of my name.) (She/Her)
MY BF: Lee (Also a kinda shortened version of his name) (He/They) (Trans)
THE CREEPY BITCH: Audie (Shortened name.) (She/Her) (Also trans)So basically, Lee has Audieβs Discord, but they havenβt really talked since last year because something happened between them and it got awkward. Iβm in my schoolβs theatre troupe, and unfortunately, so is Audie. Weβre preparing for our show that was in like a month or so, and she starts talking to me while Iβm painting a piece of set, because they have like literally nothing to do.
(Not sure why they didnβt just ask the director for something to doβ¦)Iβm mostly focused on painting, so like, Iβm not paying a shit ton of attention to them, and theyβre justβ¦CIRCLING ME? As Iβm painting. Not sure why. Anyway, weβre chatting, and Iβm not getting great vibes from them, and weβre talking about some of my friends, and how they tried to ask some of my friends out before. (First it was Ace, then it was Lee, then it was Saf. All rejected.) I bring up that me and Lee are actually now dating, and sheβs like βOh really? Thatβs- uhβ¦Good for you.β They seemedβ¦idk. Disappointed, maybe?
Time passes, we only see each other at theatre set builds, so Iβm not too mad about it. HOWEVER. As Iβm sitting at lunch with one of my friends, they bring up Audie. (I didnβt really know her name at this point in time, so Iβm like who tf is that, and they explain.) Iβm like βoh shit, I know her-β and so my BF, Lee, brings up some messages that Audie had sent, which were things like βI heard you and Jay were dating. Good for you, you lucky bastard. Donβt fuck it upβor do fuck it up AND PUT IN A GOOD WORD FOR ME.βWHAT THE FUCK. NOT ONLY THAT, BUT THEY WOULD KEEP MESSAGING LEE ABOUT ME.
Eventually, we had a cast party, and they were sitting two seats away from me. (Also for the record, I wasnβt wearing anything super extravagant, I was just wearing a tunic because it was easy to take off and change clothes/shoes in. Apparently, Audie had messaged Lee and said βFuck, Jay looks so pretty right now.βALSO! NOT ONLY HAS AUDIE BEEN SAYING THAT KINDA SHIT, THEYβVE BEEN KINDA PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE TO LEE ABOUT ME.
AND THEN! When I show clear disinterest in Audie, they keep trying to talk to me.
Like recently, I had a really cool ass group of people come to my town. Theyβre called the Young Americans, and they teach you this Dance/Singing/Musical Theatre show in 3 days. SOMEHOW AUDIE FOUND OUT ABOUT ME BEING IN IT, AND SHOWED UP TO THE PERFORMANCE YESTERDAY. They were wandering around the YA cast, and the workshop kids, looking like they were looking for someone. One of my friends asked if she was looking for someone and they said no. However, they kept weirdly following my vague direction. Whenever I would turn around to try and find another cast member so I could have them sign my shirt, there she was. We kept making eye contact for a few seconds every time. Thankfully, I had a couple friends who I explained the situation to and helped me keep away from her. They would like block me from her sight, etc.Whatever. Anyway, I donβt like her. She creeps me the fuck out, and honestly, sheβs just kinda a dick to my bf. Iβm trying to get Lee to tell Audie to stop because sheβs making both of us uncomfortable and to block her if that doesnβt work, but we both also love shitβtalking her. (Also technically itβs truthβtalking about a shitty person lmao-)
So, Iβm nervous to see if theyβve messaged Lee about me avoiding them after the Young Americans. I just- I donβt know what to do. I canβt exactly file a harassment claim through the school, because they havenβt done anything to me personally. Iβm pissed, and I have no idea what to do about it. Fucking help.EDIT: They also figured out what lunch I have/who I sit with on what days and they figured out where I am during 7th hour. (Which is the library. Theyβve been there for the last couple of days and watch me and my friend give our computers back and leave.)
EDIT 2: Sorry that was really long to read. I apologize if itβs confusing as well. -
@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0
Thats so fucked up
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@Duke I KNOW! She seems like the kind of person who wonβt take βnoβ for an answer if she tries something, and itβs scary.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 Damn, Iβm sorry to hear that shitβs happening to you! I had a friend group who had a kid tag along and they donβt like him at all. He doesnβt pick up on social cues and literally doesnβt leave them alone.
I doubt that itβs as serious as your scenario, but itβs crappy nevertheless! I hope things get better ^ -
@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 use those goth thic boots every goth has (this is half a joke) and USE THEM if she tries ANYTHING
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ππͺπ·ππ²π½ Thanks, man. I appreciate it. I just hope that she tries something (not too serious) so I can file a harassment claim, you know?
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@Duke God, I wish I had platforms lmao.
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@just-a-fkn-reaper-3-0 USE THEM cHUNKY HEELS AND KICK HER WOMAN RIGHTS RIGHT OFF
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@Duke LMAOOOOOO
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iβd punch her already if i were you, but again i have not enough patience for all that shit
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πeyelovemothsπ¦ Honestly, I would, but I have no reason to yet. She hasnβt tried to touch me or anything, to which then I would file a harassment claim and go to the cops- :P
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@Your-Local-Reaper damn