I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae the thing is, I’ve been doing it a lot more lately, and she keeps telling me to stop, have me put bandaids (which just come off) on, etc etc.

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae and obvi i didn’t tell her bc I didn’t think it was relevant. And bc she gets upset at it.
Yes, i know it leaves scars, but I can’t help it.

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae so yeah, now I’m probably going to get in even more trouble if she goes through my phone (my dc specifically) and sees that I have a bf, bc I haven’t told her yet. It’s only been a month, but I’m not ready to tell her yet. I want to make sure I really like this guy and that things are going to be good.

[Koda]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp
Okay, that’s one of the things you should actually avoid doing when you have strict parents.
When you don’t tell them what you hide, they will always find out eventually and that what leads to discipline. Then they yap 5-30 mins straight to make sure you never try it again.
The cursed thing is the fact we minors may attempt to go back to whatever we get in trouble for just to get disciplined by our parents again-

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae yeah, but like, I told her about my last partner, and she didn’t like him. that’s the bastard who cheated on me, who didn’t actually love me, whom I poured my heart out too. <33
So I want to make sure that like…we’re doing okay, because I don’t want it to end like last time.

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae like i get it, but I’m scared because of last time.

[Koda]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp It’s all about the experiences with who you’re with now, not what happened in the past experiences. <3

[Your Local Freak]

@Raven-Rae yeah, but he was kinda just…really bad, and I got maybe a little more affected than I would have liked. So hence the ‘I have to relearn how to love and be loved’ thing.
Like, she liked my first girlfriend. She was nice, but the guy was just…not it.

[Koda]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp So, she was okay and liked the girl?

[ry_rylie]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp it does. me and my brother were in foster care for almost a year bc of my ex stepdad. and then the case against my ex stepdad and what he did to me wasn’t fair. he got 4 years and probation for the rest of his life, so. I haven’t really told anyone on here so I’m keeping it to that and not talking about anymore of it but yeah, the system sucks.