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im still scared she’ll pull a my ex move

but I KNOW SHE WONT SO WHAT IS WRONG W ME

You obviously love this girl, and she is obviously okay with setting boundaries, so there is some level of trust and respect. I understand that things feel/are different from your previous relatioship. A lot of times when people come out of a hard/traumatic relationship, they havent fully allowed their brains to trust anyone else, even if they want to trust someone again. That’s not a bad thing, though. What people have learned about the past is important for the future. Now you know what people are capable of doing.

I don’t think you should discredit your fear, but I’m not trying to say you should be perpetually worried either. If you haven’t already, you should talk to your girlfriend about this fear and how you feel about your future. Do not say something is wrong with you just becase your mind is trying to protect you from a trauma that it’s afraid of experiencing again.

I’m glad your girlfriend made boundaries with you, and I think it’s important for both her and yourself to keep that communication consistent. Maybe even ask her before doing anything else in the future to send the message that you respect any other boundaries she might have. And whenever you feel like it’s a good time in your relationship, talking about these boundaries is important so you know if she feels any different. I know a lot of people say communication is key, but it truly is.

Gamizavier What is “BDNS”?

Edit: Nevermind, someone else filled me in.

xenth What entity are people moderating under? A group…?

xenth Modding what exactly?

Artemis Aw, that’s nice. I would keep granola bars in my bookbag, but they make a mess so it’s not as efficient.

Artemis I have an intollerance to apples but I would much rather have apples than sloppy joes 🤢

초콜릿 바 Yes. But never fear, there’s a remedy for this:

초콜릿 바 Let’s not forget how crazy it is people still post their dirty laundry online.

Gamizavier Did they actually go by “snail mail”?

Artemis Shipping is no joke.

Gamizavier People make money on Etsy for this kind of craft, so I don’t see why not lol

ayin In this person’s defense, school is a place where students are unsupervised by their parents, so if you think about it, I can understand why they harmed at school and not at home. No, they shouldn’t be harming themselves, but respectfully, a “reality check” cannot heal the trauma causing it in the first place.

Yeonjun 𝜗ৎ . I understand that harm against yourself feels like the only way to escape your feelings towards your situation, but it is certainly not the “best” option. The best option is talking to someone about what is going on and sorting through your feelings with them before they turn into regrettabe actions. I can guarantee that harm is not the solution, and in fact, only allows your trauma to dictate your life further.

If you need someone to talk to, dm me and I can give you my discord. I’m active daily, so you can talk to me any time and I will listen and do my best to help.

No idea who/how someone messed it up in the first place but glad we got that sorted out.

@ry_rylie Honestly, post it if you want. You and your boyfriend are adorable and I support you feeling good about yourself.

finneass <33 Firstly, I’m sorry to hear about your friend. It really is a tragedy losing someone you care about. I just hope it’s not being used as an excuse for all the things Ive been told and seen lately. Kind of hoped to leave mppc in the hands of someone who cared about it the way I do and lead by example. Like Rylie said, absolutely nobody deserves to be told to literally kill themselves. Name drop or not, we all know what that’s all about. I know you have beef with certain people on and off this forum, but dont you think it’s gotten out of hand? The way things have been running needs to change or there will be nothing left. People have left this forum because of it’s management. I know we’re all human as you like to remind us, so I’m not saying you have to be perfect, but the lines that’ve been crossed were basic expectations of any human being, admin or not: treat everybody with respect.

I leave for 3 months and this is what happens. Pretty disappointed.