Is It bad?.

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is it bad that

i feel jealous whenever my crush is jokingly flirting with someone

but i can’t express it, because if i do

then i’ll be fucked
(Not like that. I mean in like, they’l maybe hate me, and start being more distant to me, and i’ll regret it/)

and they’l prolly end our friendship

but its also like

she ignores me

and whenever i say her name, it’s like she doesn’t wanna

be bothered with me

like i did smth wrong

and i don’t wanna be that person, but like

i’m not trying to be that person

i dont wanna be annoying to her

but it seems like i’m annoying her

and i don’t want it to be like that

and it’s breaking my heart, to know that she’s slowly falling to be with that one person

maybe i’m just

overreacting?

[Sphinx]

@Youre_Just_A_Pun_To_Put_It_Politely said in Is It bad?.:

then i’ll be fucked

What…?

[Sphinx]

@Youre_Just_A_Pun_To_Put_It_Politely said in Is It bad?.:

then i’ll be fucked

What…?

[Sphinx]

@Youre_Just_A_Pun_To_Put_It_Politely This sounds like trauma bonding… Maybe consider your options here… Your crush actively ignores you and gives you a feeling that If you told them the truth about how you feel they’d leave. that doesn’t sound like a true friend let alone a intermate partner.

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Sphinx said in

What…?

Sphinx Not like that… Like our friendship would be ruined-

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Sphinx said in

This sounds like trauma bonding… Maybe consider your options here… Your crush actively ignores you and gives you a feeling that If you told them the truth about how you feel they’d leave. that doesn’t sound like a true friend let alone a intermate partner.

ohhh, that makes a lot of sense now. I get what you’re saying. you’re right