Vent <3 TW!! Suicide, Narcissistic mothers, Self-Harm, Depression, Knives, Tall heights, and Other.
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uh oh, that ain’t good. -
@Ditto-2-0 This made me chuckle :D
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@Haven Kinda shitty that your parents are like that, I hope things get better
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This is horrible and all but uh,
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@Calistaa
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@Calistaa I know that’s Why I added a TW. People can see the triggers before they even click the Post and they can Just Mark as read or skip.
I’m just tryna vent here man :,|
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@Haven But- adding a trigger warning doesn’t fix anything- w- h u h.
Whatever though, who follows that rule?
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@Calistaa I don’t think anyone follows the rules anymore
Thanks
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@Calistaa said in Vent <3 TW!! Suicide, Narcissistic mothers, Self-Harm, Depression, Knives, Tall heights, and Other.:
adding a trigger warning doesn’t fix anything
It kinda does tho, It warns people what topics are going to be discussed about to avoid being triggered. Thats kinda why It’s called a Trigger warning :p
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@Haven
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@Calistaa nah ive made posts expressing my suicidal thoughts and no one really says anything
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@finn-dfw-u -._-.
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@InvalidBandit True Hehe
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@Haven Then follow them yourself.
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@InvalidBandit That’s fr my face when I don’t follow the rules I fr don’t care hehe
Cause Nobody else followed them
Besides this is a vent and Its so easy to either block me or Mark the post as read ;p
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@Haven Srry came back but um- you should kinda care, that’s all I’m going to say :/
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@Haven Imagine someone making a thoughtful vent and then people come and say “you’re breaking the rules” lol
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@Duchess exactly, thats part of what makes me mad, i mean its just like, someones clearly put a TW and they’re asking for help and you’re worried about the rules which dont get me wrong are important but not more important that someone getting help they need.
yes it is, but if it was a problem the moderators would say something about it and they haven’t said anyting about it yet
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@Haven Firstly, sorry I wrote so much about each paragraph. I feel very strong about your story. And I really don’t want to sound corny, but when I first read your stories in the past, I couldn’t wait to reply, but I wasn’t sure how. Secondly, your posts a while ago, I saved a doc replying to them a long time ago, and I was meaning to share it back then, but… then time went by and I wasn’t sure if it’d be weird now or anything. I wanted to make a whole post one day since it had been so long but I really didn’t want to seem like I was calling you out or anything. I responded to each paragraph labeled below:
(Part 1) “(This happened yesterday Feb, 26 2023)”
Even if your mom doesn’t agree with the lgtbq’s, it’s not like she should lie that she supports you and then not actually support you. I mean, she doesn’t have to support something she believes goes against her religion, but she should still love you and treat you right. You’re her child, so it’s just the right thing to do. I think she wanted to accept you for being bi and non binary to make you feel happy, but didn’t really want to since she doesn’t really agree with it. But lying about how she felt wasn’t really right in my opinion. I think what she should have said from the beginning was the truth, like, “I may not agree with you, but I’ll still always love you,” or something like that. Everyone naturally disagrees and judges others, but I feel like we should not treat people poorly just because people’s beliefs collide with ours. But also, you should not lie about it just because you’re afraid of how someone would react. A part of being your mom is for her to be honest. It hurts more if she reveals that stuff later on than if she just said how she felt in the first place. If it hurts, it hurts, but at least you wouldn’t have been deceived from the beginning, yknow? -
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