I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

TL;DR: I feel invalidated because my mom claims I’m a liar, when in reality, I just don’t feel safe enough to tell her the truth, so now I’m grounded from my phone and she’s probably going to find out about my boyfriend of a month.

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp im sorry bro- my mom doed the same thing but with my nail biting habit AND UR MOM TELLS U TO STAND UP FOR URSELF MY MOM SAYS WOMEN BELONG IN THE KITCHEN, SILENT (at home i go by female pronouns-)

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose said in I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.:

my mom doed the same thing but with my nail biting habit

bro me too- that’s something I’m trying to break too, but I’ve been doing it for nearly 10 years (i’m 16 now, so take that into account), and it’s hard. I do really good and then something happens and I pick or bite at my nails and she gets pissed when she sees it. She basically keeps guilt tripping me by showing me how infected fingers can get, or how they have to get surgery because they got fucked up too much and it pisses me off. I don’t intentionally do it.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose and what’s even worse, is when my dad said that I just need to stop arguing, I said that I wasn’t arguing, I was telling her what I was doing and that I wasn’t lying, and then he got pissy at me for a minute.
(My mom hates lying, so she things that I was lying, so now I’m grounded.)

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp ‘omigod your gonna get a infevtion’ ‘ohmigod just stop it its not that hard!!!’ BITCH IT IS THAT HARD. SHE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND CUZ SHE DOESN’T DO THAT

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp said in I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.:

Blake Rose and what’s even worse, is when my dad said that I just need to stop arguing, I said that I wasn’t arguing, I was telling her what I was doing and that I wasn’t lying, and then he got pissy at me for a minute.
(My mom hates lying, so she things that I was lying, so now I’m grounded.)

. . . Yup. my mom reports whatever i did to my dad. (he’s dead now but like still- with my stepmom too-)

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose EXACTLY!
My mom grew up in a really toxic household–her mom was an abusive narcissist, and her dad was just as bad, so it was a really toxic household, so I’m pretty sure she picked up some of that shit from her parents, even though she claims that she’s trying to break the trauma cycle, when she’s not. She just keeps it going somedays, and I know that eventually I’m probably going to need fucking therapy because of it.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose oh, she doesn’t report it to him, he was just there and heard everything.

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp same. she says she tries but she never succeeds. Lowkey i used to do sh a LOT. recovering now thank goodness. but my mom fr makes me wanna crash put-

[Blake]

Blake Rose out*

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp Damn.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose I’ve never sh’d, but the amount of times I’ve thought about it and then mentally hit myself because I know I have no real reason to is…insane.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose she’s legit threatened to put me in therapy when we have our arguments. I don’t need it now, but I might if she keeps this shit up, and I don’t like that idea. I don’t want to go to therapy.

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp …the amunt of times where i would sit on my floor and miniaclly cry-laugh out of pain…(mentlly) we both need help-

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp …mine threatened me to put me in a mental clinic and never come back. With a kn!fe to my throat.

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose oh! CPS?

[Blake]

Blake Rose help why is my english so broken- ‘miniclly’

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose except I can’t do that. Not safely, anyway. We have a one-floor house, and my room (because our house is so small) is the dining room. I don’t even have a door, I have a set of black-out curtains hanging up in the arch.

[Blake]

@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp i would but- i’m fuckin’ scared. what if i end up in a worse situation than im already in-?

[Your Local Shadow Simp]

Blake Rose that’s fair. I hear the system can fucking suck.