I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp im sorry bro- my mom doed the same thing but with my nail biting habit AND UR MOM TELLS U TO STAND UP FOR URSELF MY MOM SAYS WOMEN BELONG IN THE KITCHEN, SILENT (at home i go by female pronouns-)
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@Blake said in I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.:
my mom doed the same thing but with my nail biting habit
bro me too- that’s something I’m trying to break too, but I’ve been doing it for nearly 10 years (i’m 16 now, so take that into account), and it’s hard. I do really good and then something happens and I pick or bite at my nails and she gets pissed when she sees it. She basically keeps guilt tripping me by showing me how infected fingers can get, or how they have to get surgery because they got fucked up too much and it pisses me off. I don’t intentionally do it.
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@Blake and what’s even worse, is when my dad said that I just need to stop arguing, I said that I wasn’t arguing, I was telling her what I was doing and that I wasn’t lying, and then he got pissy at me for a minute.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp ‘omigod your gonna get a infevtion’ ‘ohmigod just stop it its not that hard!!!’ BITCH IT IS THAT HARD. SHE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND CUZ SHE DOESN’T DO THAT
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp said in I feel really invalidated, and that my mom isn't letting me defend myself, and now I'm grounded.:
@Blake and what’s even worse, is when my dad said that I just need to stop arguing, I said that I wasn’t arguing, I was telling her what I was doing and that I wasn’t lying, and then he got pissy at me for a minute.
(My mom hates lying, so she things that I was lying, so now I’m grounded.). . . Yup. my mom reports whatever i did to my dad. (he’s dead now but like still- with my stepmom too-)
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@Blake EXACTLY!
My mom grew up in a really toxic household–her mom was an abusive narcissist, and her dad was just as bad, so it was a really toxic household, so I’m pretty sure she picked up some of that shit from her parents, even though she claims that she’s trying to break the trauma cycle, when she’s not. She just keeps it going somedays, and I know that eventually I’m probably going to need fucking therapy because of it. -
@Blake oh, she doesn’t report it to him, he was just there and heard everything.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp same. she says she tries but she never succeeds. Lowkey i used to do sh a LOT. recovering now thank goodness. but my mom fr makes me wanna crash put-
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@Blake out*
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp Damn.
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@Blake I’ve never sh’d, but the amount of times I’ve thought about it and then mentally hit myself because I know I have no real reason to is…insane.
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@Blake she’s legit threatened to put me in therapy when we have our arguments. I don’t need it now, but I might if she keeps this shit up, and I don’t like that idea. I don’t want to go to therapy.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp …the amunt of times where i would sit on my floor and miniaclly cry-laugh out of pain…(mentlly)
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp …mine threatened me to put me in a mental clinic and never come back. With a kn!fe to my throat.
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@Blake oh! CPS?
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@Blake help why is my english so broken- ‘miniclly’
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@Blake except I can’t do that. Not safely, anyway. We have a one-floor house, and my room (because our house is so small) is the dining room. I don’t even have a door, I have a set of black-out curtains hanging up in the arch.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp i would but- i’m fuckin’ scared. what if i end up in a worse situation than im already in-?
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@Blake that’s fair. I hear the system can fucking suck.
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@Your-Local-Ghostface-Simp Damn-
