Is It bad?.
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is it bad that
i feel jealous whenever my crush is jokingly flirting with someone
but i canāt express it, because if i do
then iāll be fucked
(Not like that. I mean in like, theyāl maybe hate me, and start being more distant to me, and iāll regret it/)and theyāl prolly end our friendship
but its also like
she ignores me
and whenever i say her name, itās like she doesnāt wanna
be bothered with me
like i did smth wrong
and i donāt wanna be that person, but like
iām not trying to be that person
i dont wanna be annoying to her
but it seems like iām annoying her
and i donāt want it to be like that
and itās breaking my heart, to know that sheās slowly falling to be with that one person
maybe iām just
overreacting?
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@Youre_Just_A_Pun_To_Put_It_Politely This sounds like trauma bondingā¦ Maybe consider your options hereā¦ Your crush actively ignores you and gives you a feeling that If you told them the truth about how you feel theyād leave. that doesnāt sound like a true friend let alone a intermate partner.
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Sphinx said in
This sounds like trauma bondingā¦ Maybe consider your options hereā¦ Your crush actively ignores you and gives you a feeling that If you told them the truth about how you feel theyād leave. that doesnāt sound like a true friend let alone a intermate partner.
ohhh, that makes a lot of sense now. I get what youāre saying. youāre right