on some real shit
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people romanticize social awkwardness and anxiety until you genuinely dont know how to talk to other people and you’re dry and don’t talk much unless its something you’re personally interested in / want to talk about
it’s getting to the point where as much as I love talking to my friends about the things I feel like talking about and being able to share things I find funny with them, I’m starting to wish I just didn’t have any friends at all because some of them shame me for not being talkative or responding to them in the way they want, and my relatives are displaying how they don’t like me just because I don’t talk a lot in petty ways like stealing from me and not wanting to give me food so they tell everyone but me
if you dont want lame responses from me just don’t fucking talk to me, okay? I don’t ever mean to seem like I don’t care so I try to sympathize, but I actually don’t care at all and often times people start talking me when I’m doing something or want to be left alone, so not only do I just not give a shit, you’re also just pissing me off and that sometimes influences dry, short replies
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I don’t not care about any of my friends or the situations they go through, but at the same time it’s like… I’m not going through it, why do I have to give you advice? Why do I have to respond “adequately” to you? I’ll reply, let you know I listened or read what you said, but I’m not always sure how to reply, if ever.
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plutonium said in on some real shit:
people romanticize social awkwardness and anxiety
“aww futaba from persona 5 is so cute”
oh but when its ME IT ISNT CUTE,like fuck you bruh
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i’ve gotten to a point in knowing you where i’m aware that anything i say to you may or may not get a reply and usually it’s for a reasonable cause. i hate when people get whiney and naggy when someone is dry.
‘why do u not gaf im venting to you’ if you didnt like how i handle it dont vent to me ?
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plutonium being able to be vented to is a skill that has to be learned and worked on, and it ticks me off when people get pissed because someone hasn’t learned that type of skill. I’ve had people talk shi Abt others for being either dry or not giving a fuhh when they’re venting to them, and it’s just unfair to the person who’s listening to the vent. If someone isn’t giving you the responses you want when you’re venting, try venting to someone else who does. There are unrealistic standards nowadays for friends to always 100% be a perfect listener, when sometimes people literally don’t have the mental capacity for that. You’re doing nothing wrong.
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Why do people always have to act like you murdered their pet whenever you’re dry? I seriously do not understand it. I have one, ONE bad day, and when my responses are minimal they explode with accusations. Makes me think if I should have ever interacted with those people in the first place. Sorry not sorry I am having a bad day and I genuinely cannot compose myself to talk to you, or your topic is not of my interest.
I started simply blocking those types of people. Why have discourse with someone that does not value it in the first place?
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senmorolt they act like you hate them and dont care about them just because you say “ok”
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What hurts the most about “friends” or maybe “online friends” who do that is the fact they specifically want your attention when they talk to you and expect you to engage with the conversation. If anything sticks out like a sore thumb, just make sure you’re not the back-up friend to them.
When it comes to venting, of course they want help, advice, and whatnot. But it’s not okay to accuse you for not caring.Most who are anti-social in irl/public or anti-social during certain times of the day or night might just not have anything to say to different situations that get thrown at them.
For whoever this “Sands” guy or girl is, they have a strong interpretation about you like they would about someone else, which that brings out the accusatory side of them and maybe they aren’t as observant when it comes to the smaller details. (Ref to second screenshot, last message.)
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like real though if i go dry that means im either busy. having my intense mood swing, or just exhausted. im tired of people that think dry texters are like one of the seven deadly sins
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plutonium said in on some real shit:
if you dont want lame responses from me just don’t fucking talk to me, okay?
This pretty much sums me up when I’m talking to most people–people think I don’t like them when I start to reply in a really dry tone, but that’s just how I talk to most people, except for a few. like god fucking forbid 💔
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no matter what ya say itd prolly be worse if ya were alone
