on some real shit
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plutonium said in on some real shit:
people romanticize social awkwardness and anxiety
“aww futaba from persona 5 is so cute”
oh but when its ME IT ISNT CUTE,like fuck you bruh
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i’ve gotten to a point in knowing you where i’m aware that anything i say to you may or may not get a reply and usually it’s for a reasonable cause. i hate when people get whiney and naggy when someone is dry.
‘why do u not gaf im venting to you’ if you didnt like how i handle it dont vent to me ?
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plutonium being able to be vented to is a skill that has to be learned and worked on, and it ticks me off when people get pissed because someone hasn’t learned that type of skill. I’ve had people talk shi Abt others for being either dry or not giving a fuhh when they’re venting to them, and it’s just unfair to the person who’s listening to the vent. If someone isn’t giving you the responses you want when you’re venting, try venting to someone else who does. There are unrealistic standards nowadays for friends to always 100% be a perfect listener, when sometimes people literally don’t have the mental capacity for that. You’re doing nothing wrong.
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Why do people always have to act like you murdered their pet whenever you’re dry? I seriously do not understand it. I have one, ONE bad day, and when my responses are minimal they explode with accusations. Makes me think if I should have ever interacted with those people in the first place. Sorry not sorry I am having a bad day and I genuinely cannot compose myself to talk to you, or your topic is not of my interest.
I started simply blocking those types of people. Why have discourse with someone that does not value it in the first place?
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senmorolt they act like you hate them and dont care about them just because you say “ok”
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What hurts the most about “friends” or maybe “online friends” who do that is the fact they specifically want your attention when they talk to you and expect you to engage with the conversation. If anything sticks out like a sore thumb, just make sure you’re not the back-up friend to them.
When it comes to venting, of course they want help, advice, and whatnot. But it’s not okay to accuse you for not caring.Most who are anti-social in irl/public or anti-social during certain times of the day or night might just not have anything to say to different situations that get thrown at them.
For whoever this “Sands” guy or girl is, they have a strong interpretation about you like they would about someone else, which that brings out the accusatory side of them and maybe they aren’t as observant when it comes to the smaller details. (Ref to second screenshot, last message.)
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like real though if i go dry that means im either busy. having my intense mood swing, or just exhausted. im tired of people that think dry texters are like one of the seven deadly sins
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plutonium said in on some real shit:
if you dont want lame responses from me just don’t fucking talk to me, okay?
This pretty much sums me up when I’m talking to most people–people think I don’t like them when I start to reply in a really dry tone, but that’s just how I talk to most people, except for a few. like god fucking forbid 💔
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no matter what ya say itd prolly be worse if ya were alone
