ayin In this person’s defense, school is a place where students are unsupervised by their parents, so if you think about it, I can understand why they harmed at school and not at home. No, they shouldn’t be harming themselves, but respectfully, a “reality check” cannot heal the trauma causing it in the first place.
Yeonjun 𝜗ৎ . I understand that harm against yourself feels like the only way to escape your feelings towards your situation, but it is certainly not the “best” option. The best option is talking to someone about what is going on and sorting through your feelings with them before they turn into regrettabe actions. I can guarantee that harm is not the solution, and in fact, only allows your trauma to dictate your life further.
If you need someone to talk to, dm me and I can give you my discord. I’m active daily, so you can talk to me any time and I will listen and do my best to help.