Why are some people like this....(TW: MENTION OF SH, SU1C1DE)
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@rumi said in Why are some people like this....(TW: MENTION OF SH, SU1C1DE):
I just ignored her because I knew she was fishing for attention.
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Is it wrong for me to be pissed? I genuinely want to know.You said it yourself–she’s attention-seeking, and you have the right to be upset about it. She’s attention-seeking, spreading things about you, etc. This is not on you. This is on her.
I know this might sound rude, but some people just have issues, and people like that need to get help. Threatening to KHS or harm themselves in some way just to get with you or get attention is entirely wrong, and messed up. You are completely in the right, and she needs to get help. -
@Your-Local-Shadow-Simp thank you…at least there isnt something wrong with me
It's rumi!!
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if shes pissin ya off, go tell her
boundaries should be respected and if she doesnt stop go tell staff and/or file a restraining order /hjplease dont let it continue if its upsettin ya <33
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@rumi ofc ofc!!
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@rumi No, it’s not wrong at all for you to be angry. I don’t understand why this girl is acting the way she is, but there’s a very good chance it may either be attention-seeking or something underlying- either way, I doubt it was because of you. She may be trying to “get back at you” for letting her down about her feelings. Whatever it may be, it’s extremely childish, immature, and your reputation could get hurt as a result of said behavior.
I agree with some other posters who have already replied, you should definitely nip this in the bud and get some outside help if need be. I hope things go well! -
Araghibe thank you!
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@rumi
Thats just wrong with what shes doing. Threatening to do stuff to herself to try and get you with her is just crazy. You should explain to her that boundaries exist and shes crossing them severely -
@rumi yeah, no. If someone did that to me I would genuinely just ignore them I do NOT care
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@rumi um what
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@rumi Like many people have said in this post, she is 100% in the wrong. I’m not sure what’s her problem, but clearly she needs to place her attitude in check. This is generally just abhorrent behaviour. I’m sorry you had to put up with this. She can fuck right off.
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@rumi
I’m gonna keep it a buck and just say this right now, if she gets delusional over a rejection and resort TO THAT. Just either stay away from that person and keep a mental health hotline in case that person gets worse OR showing the irony that your friend is doing
