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@Cozy-Talk I havent posted for this group in a few weeks. Lately I was thinking about my friends and how I try to do my best to keep up with them. Sometimes I forget that I should set boundaries with people and not try to juggle bending over for everyone at once lol
Is is easy for you to make friends? And how easy is it for people to be friends with you?
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depends on the other person but typically i can make a lot of friends easily (i know basically half the school XD)
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With online people, I make them pretty quickly
With people in real life, it really takes time for me to classify somebody as a friend, it takes a few weeks to a few months -
@Duchess
In terms of online - takes alot for us to get to know each other.
In terms of real life - same thing.
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I observe people I see interest in before interacting with them. If theyāre a person I would get along with, I wait for a natural event to happen where I can interact with them with assistance. Iām an ambivert, not entirely social, but sometimes I get courage. And the time I try to force interaction, it gets awkward.
Itās easy to become friends with me as long as I see you from a good perspective. Iām caring and sweet if you meet me in person.
Iām a meditator, one of the most caring, friendly, and outgoing personalities ever. It may not seem like it on this site, but I am.
Edit: I usually check their zodiac. It tells me about the person. I know it sounds cheesy, but it helps me find people Iām friends with and who Iām not friends with (for the most part). A week ago, I followed what I described. I made a new friend (IRL
).Itās time to take a one-year break from making more IRL friends. Haha.
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@Duchess 50/50
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Online itās pretty easy for me because thereās always conversation points and starters with no awkward silences or anything. Thatās what gets me in person.
In person I think I am good at keeping long-term friends, most of mine Iāve known for at least 2 years or more. One of them since before preschool. But Iām just really bad at starting conversations so itās harderfarts
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@A38 Yeah, I feel that way irl as well. I dont have any irl friends, so. Thereās that.
@Michi4959 Yeah, I agree. It takes a while to really get to know someone. Although it is easier to talk to people online since you can message them at any time instead of wait to see them irl. And not everyone irl is willing to give their contact so fast so lol
Goofbreadššø I like to observe people too.
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Cursed Cucumber I agree. The awkwardness is kind of hard to get past.
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no words at all
Online = kind of hard
Real life = impossible unless itās someone I know really well from years or is someone important to me -
@Duchess online: pretty easy
irl: i only have one non-related friend so that speaks for itself T-T Sobs in no communication skills -
@Duchess Pretty easy. Because of my intense loneliness Iāve gained the ability to be what people want in the moment, and switch personalities. But then once I come out my comfort zone, they eventually leave me. So thatās nice.
Iām great at reading people and avoiding conflict, keeping myself to seem as innocent and kind as possible. I know exactly what to say, how to say it, and my lack of social anxiety really makes it all the more easy.
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irl I would say in the first day
But on hereā¦āļøāļø š«š« -
@Hexers-Angel That is kind of scary. Would you sayd itās hard to just be yourself?
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@Duchess scary? Clever rather. And no, with people I trust, I can be myself. With people with whom I ātrustā I can be whoever they like until our interactions are over.
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@Hexers-Angel Well it is definitely clever indeed.
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@Duchess i forgot it was monday i thought it was wednesday.
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@Duchess making frienda CAN sometimes be easy but like if someone you are friends with are acting like they dk you, they arenāt real friends. REAL friends would include you in everything and i mean EVVVVERYTHING. And they would NOT Leave you alone. Some friends donāt be like real friends bc they either
dont like u
they got something they rlly wanted and left u
or
just never told u they left uREAL friends actually would tell you. Idk, itās a medium making friends.
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@Duchess Kind of is easy. Depends on the person. Though, you have to be careful with the company you have around. People like it when youāre nice and good to them, and thatās how I befriend people lol.
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IRL/Classroom: Someone else does the talking and we talk regularly, otherwise I will just be quiet.
Online: It usually happens if I regularly interact with them. A few times, Iāve been a fan of their work and would have considered them a āfriendā at the first interaction.
